Accidental anal leading to a love for anal?

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Accidental anal leading to a love for anal?

Post by analsexonly » Sat Jun 24, 2017 7:20 am

A common (at least in popular discussion of anal) unexpected and unplanned introduction to anal penetration is the "accidental anal" encounter, where a woman is having vaginal sex and the man accidentally slips into her ass. This commonly causes pain and shock, as she was not expecting it and often had not had anal experience previously, and can generally be assumed to be a terrible introduction to anal sex and pleasure.

However, I'm curious: are there any women here whose first experience with anal was something along these lines but for whom it still unlocked a curiosity about anal that lead to trying it properly and enjoying it or even becoming anal only down the road?

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Post by Buttwoman » Sun Jun 25, 2017 5:17 am

I think it only happens in well staged porno movies.
I can voluntarily let in any penis ever made. Nobody could EVER go in there accidentally. You would be stopped dead at the gates. Physiology 101

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Post by singleinDC » Sun Jun 25, 2017 6:38 am

This is a "thing" in a lot of porn. But I doubt this has ever happened in real life. Unfortunately, some stupid guys think this might "work" and start putting it in there "accidentally"... which backfires and makes a woman less likely to want to try it later on. You're doing a disservice to yourself and all men by doing that. Rub the head GENTLY on the outside or a wet finger very very slowly? In the heat of things, sure. But don't push it, literally or figuratively.

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Post by analsexonly » Sun Jun 25, 2017 6:51 am

I am not talking about porn, I'm asking whether anyone here initially had a bad unplanned anal experience that caused them a lot of pain but still decided sometime in the future to try and experiment with anal play further and came to love it despite that initial bad experience potentially turning them off the idea.

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Post by singleinDC » Sun Jun 25, 2017 6:57 am

analsexonly wrote:I am not talking about porn, I'm asking whether anyone here initially had a bad unplanned anal experience that caused them a lot of pain but still decided sometime in the future to try and experiment with anal play further and came to love it despite that initial bad experience potentially turning them off the idea.

Yes, absolutely. I've known several.

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Post by Buttwoman » Sun Jun 25, 2017 7:06 am

I've been poked in the butthole pretty hard, enough to hurt, by a badly aimed dick. It's certainly not going in, unless you've already been up to some anal play.
I have lots of friends who had a very bad first experience with anal, and they love it now. Takes a good teacher.

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Post by AnxiouslyAnal » Tue Aug 01, 2017 12:30 pm

My wife was a virgin when we met and vaginal was the only thing we did for the first couple months we were together. Then, we were fooling around one night after getting really drunk and we had a very genuine "oops, wrong hole" moment. I think I screamed louder than she did, because it was genuinely an accident and I felt absolutely terrible. Because it was like *all* in. And I started apologizing immediately and started to pull back. But she grabbed me and told me to stop moving. And then she started moving. And then her hand was on her clit and then she started cumming.

It was hugely erotic and after that she wanted to do "butt stuff" pretty often. And she always tries to tell her girlfriends to give it a shot.

So, yeah, in her case, an "oops" turned into a pretty immediate love for anal.

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Post by analsexonly » Sun Aug 13, 2017 7:19 am

That's great to hear! Good that a potentially traumatic experience instead turned into a lifelong love for anal.

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Post by Lookiwolf » Tue Aug 15, 2017 10:43 am

I don't think this is possible in real life, sorry. At best it COULD lead to a discussion about it, but the most likely outcome is being upset. Specially since the likelyhood that this would be an "accident" is really low (if there was more than superficial penetration)

That being said, I've been thinking about it for a while, and this could be the base of a really hot roleplay. I would love to pretend that I'm tooootally expecting vaginal, but the guy starts fucking my ass (which would be prepared for it of course, but i'd pretend i've totally never had anything in there :P )

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Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Sun Aug 20, 2017 8:23 pm

Let me say, I honestly slipped one time when we were having sex (just after getting married). My wife screamed like I had just stabbed her (I guess I did, in a manner of speaking) then started crying. I hadn't even realized what had happened. It's funny now, but at the time she said, after that, she would never want to have anal sex. Now she chooses to have only anal sex.

So, I don't think and accidental slip would realistically lead to a good experience. Even if she was very experienced with anal sex, if she wasn't prepared, I don't see it turning out good.

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