Explaining Anal Only to women.

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Explaining Anal Only to women.

Post by Buttwoman » Wed Jul 12, 2017 6:10 am

I am both Anal Only, and extremely bisexual (I have no preferrence...really)

I've posted before about the reactions I get from men when I tell them that any sex we have will be anal. It was a lot tougher in my twenties, because men's biological clocks were ticking, and the natural inclination is to procreate. Luckily- Just touch their cocks a few times and they changed their minds. Now that I'm past child bearing age, it's easier. Tell a man I want anal, and they are ready to go, hard-on in hand, and still wearing their socks.

When I meet a woman, it's a bit different. After the pleasantries of getting to know each other, I mention that sex with me is anal. Long pause. Then they invariably say 'How do two women have anal sex?' I explain that anything that can go on in front, is just as good in back. I have never had a woman respond with Eeew, you want me to lick your...
Most women are really quite open minded about it. They have questions about cleanliness, whether I orgasm, and if I'm going to do the same with them. I still love eating, and playing with, pussies. Other peoples. I assure them that they will get what they want, and that perhaps I can expand their horizons.
If a woman has any experience with anal F/F, or M/F, we can just dive right in. If they are new to it, teaching can be so much fun!

Totally anecdotal-
The first time in bed women will let me lick their ass. They will enjoy it. They will be reluctant to lick mine.
If she has some anal experience, I can put in a finger or two without much discussion. A first timer will get a finger up their ass with some coaxing.
Most women will fist my ass after a few times having sex together. Most will want to do it again.
I can introduce about half to taking my fist in their ass. It takes time and trust. Most will want to do it again.

Telling a woman I'm Anal Only has NEVER been a deal breaker.

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Post by A. Nalprophet » Wed Jul 12, 2017 6:48 am

Buttwoman wrote:Most women are really quite open minded about it.

Actually I'd confirm but there's somehow a contradiction: As far as I know, most women experience anal through a partner and very rarely by themself...why not?
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Post by Buttwoman » Wed Jul 12, 2017 6:55 am

Obviously, I can't speak for other women.
I walked around the house, sticking everything I could find up my ass long before doing it with a partner.
But yes, there are women out there who have never touched their own anus except to clean it.
All women should be issued a buttplug and lube on their 12th. birthday.

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Post by A. Nalprophet » Wed Jul 12, 2017 10:56 am

Hehe...12 is maybe a bit too young. :lol:

But yeah, as it is my goal, there's a big need for educational propaganda!
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Post by Analonely » Wed Jul 12, 2017 4:20 pm

Buttwoman wrote:Telling a woman I'm Anal Only has NEVER been a deal breaker.

On average, women are more empathetic than men. This means they don't compartmentalize things as men do, but are rather concerned about who's behind (no pun intended) whatever it is that's being told or proposed, how this is going to be for them and for the other involved; the focus is always on the subject and whatever revolves around herself and him/her.

Men, on the other hand, are more systematic, which in turn can be really problematic regarding lovemaking since this is an act between individuals, not bodies/things. Everybody's got personal physical preferences, but this is highly accentuated in men for the aforementioned reasons (some like "tits", some asses, etc.), so they will naturally aggregate 'women-pussy' as the who always comes in second, first "question" being the what.

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Post by minorkeyes » Wed Jul 26, 2017 9:36 pm

I have had mostly poor experiences with getting sexual pleasure from a woman anally.

Performing anal on a bi or bi-curious woman has not been too much of a problem for me. Many are open to anal play when.. erh, receiving I guess. It is the other way around that has frustrated me at varying times.

In my experiences, it is the case most bi/bi-curious women want to use my vagina to some degree. Which I am indifferent to at best, uninterested at worst. I think many bi or bi-curious women think of anal as a 'no-go' or a thing 'for guys'. I am sure more than a few also think about poop, farting, etc. So there is that too.

Nonetheless it has been historically difficult to get bi/bi-curious women to perform anal on me. Rather it be penetration or oral. The latter is especially difficult to come by.

I have never had sex with a woman that I have known to be anal only or a lesbian. Most of the time when I have slept with women it is part group sex and there is a exchange between men and women somewhat equally.

However, my sister and I have been in a (extremely happy) relationship since our early teens. Though we both have sex with men and women, my sister majorly only has sex with me when it comes to women. She has sex with men (our husband) though. But does not share a strong interest in other women- mostly just group sex.

My sister is not anal only but she does perform... well, everything. She does everything to me. That being said, my sister is not quite the anal lover I am and she uses my vagina a fair bit. More than my husband actually. I tolerate it because it gets her off.

There are plenty of times when I just wanted to have my ass eaten out by a beautiful woman and the best I got was just some mildly interested licking of vag. Whatever.

I would not say full anal sex (oral and penetration) is very common among majority of bi or bi-curious women I have had sex with at all.

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Post by Haunter » Thu Jul 27, 2017 12:06 pm

minorkeyes wrote:I have had mostly poor experiences with getting sexual pleasure from a woman anally.

Performing anal on a bi or bi-curious woman has not been too much of a problem for me. Many are open to anal play when.. erh, receiving I guess. It is the other way around that has frustrated me at varying times.

In my experiences, it is the case most bi/bi-curious women want to use my vagina to some degree. Which I am indifferent to at best, uninterested at worst. I think many bi or bi-curious women think of anal as a 'no-go' or a thing 'for guys'. I am sure more than a few also think about poop, farting, etc. So there is that too.

Nonetheless it has been historically difficult to get bi/bi-curious women to perform anal on me. Rather it be penetration or oral. The latter is especially difficult to come by.

I have never had sex with a woman that I have known to be anal only or a lesbian. Most of the time when I have slept with women it is part group sex and there is a exchange between men and women somewhat equally.

However, my sister and I have been in a (extremely happy) relationship since our early teens. Though we both have sex with men and women, my sister majorly only has sex with me when it comes to women. She has sex with men (our husband) though. But does not share a strong interest in other women- mostly just group sex.

My sister is not anal only but she does perform... well, everything. She does everything to me. That being said, my sister is not quite the anal lover I am and she uses my vagina a fair bit. More than my husband actually. I tolerate it because it gets her off.

There are plenty of times when I just wanted to have my ass eaten out by a beautiful woman and the best I got was just some mildly interested licking of vag. Whatever.

I would not say full anal sex (oral and penetration) is very common among majority of bi or bi-curious women I have had sex with at all.

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Post by analsexonly » Sun Aug 13, 2017 7:18 am

I've found the same, that most women are open to the idea, especially if sexually open minded in general. Those who are strictly opposed to it tend to be quite non-sexual in general and fear trying anything new and worry what others will think of them for their sexuality. But with the right partner and the right circumstances, a lot of women are open to trying out anal only for a while and seeing what it's like. And once you're through that door, the increased pleasure of anal and the focus of being strictly anal only tends to turn them onto it even more and many want to stay that way after.

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Post by angel2001 » Mon Oct 29, 2018 10:31 pm

"I can introduce about half to taking my fist in their ass."

Buttwoman, have you ever tries to fist fuck a man?
If yes, how was it?

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