I like sitting on top of a guy, facing him. I can really grind around and find just the right places. I also love sticking my ass in the air, knees by my boobs, with my face on a pillow.
I've been lucky, I was orgasmic from the very first time.
Of course, guaranteed instant, and multiple orgasms, stick a fist in there in any position. (Need emoji with hair standing on end!)
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There was a time when I think she would not have considered ass to mouth (not that I asked), but she willingly does it for her own pleasure now.
So, communication is key. She needs to be able to tell you what she wants. And you need to study her reactions to what you are doing to determine how much pleasure she is getting from it.
The amazing thing to me is that my wife thinks I am the greatest lover ever. However, she tells me (verbally and through her body language) what she wants at any given time to give her pleasure.
So, women, if you want your man to be the best lover you've ever had, don't be shy about telling him what you want.
1. I read once that the "easiest" position for an anal newbie was lying on her/his side, because the anal muscles are relaxed this way. The hardest and most painful position for first-time anal -- despite that this is the position almost everyone tries first! -- is from behind, because the curve of her/his legs below the butt is actually pulling the anal muscles tighter, the opposite of what you want for a newcomer.
2. That said, my personal experience is that my girl loves missionary anal most of all. The position of my cock hits her g-spot very easily that way, so she's very orgasmic. From behind (doggy style), she may have an orgasm or two, but nothing like the multiorgasmic experience she has during missionary anal.
3. All of this is predicated on her relaxation level. No relaxation = no anal orgasms. So she'll usually have a glass of wine or a cocktail, a warm bath, and we'll start with some good pussy fucking to rev up her engines and get her orgasms started. (I know, I know, don't judge me! ) Once her orgasms begin, they get easier and more frequent to achieve, so soon I can slide into her ass in missionary for a few dozen more orgasms before turning her over and finishing with one big final explosion from behind.
She will take it doggy if we are doing the submissive thing (she likes to be collared and dominated), but usually finds it a bit painful due to the angle inside. We sometimes do side to side but it gets a little awkward if she wants it a bit harder.
I am pretty lucky to have found a girl that not only loves anal, but orgasms easily and is the one asking me for it every time have sex.
With women, flat on my back with my knees up & bent so my whole vagina and anus are 'open' or exposed. Super orgasms one right after the other. This is my preferred sexual position in general; especially if I have some support to keep my legs aloft via ropes or ties. The deepest and best penetration is possible in this way and it totally relaxes me so I only have to concentrate on orgasm/sensation. The drawback is you are at the mercy of the speed and power of the people screwing you in this position. Which can go from 'amazing' to 'are you even doing anything?' rather quickly with male partners in a way reverse cowgirl anal solves easily.
Vaginal sex, eh. I guess the position I described above is the best of vaginal orgasm for me. Usually fisting my vag in that position is very effective- it is probably the most effective way for me to orgasm vaginally. Typically only reach orgasm via vaginal use because someone is doing other stuff to me on the way there.
However, just straight up using my pussy?
I guess, if a man is screwing me, regular cowgirl is best for the vag. With a woman, flat on my back, knees up as deep as she can get. I am more into stretching/dilation than penetration in my vagina. My vagina is kinda not the pathway to orgasms for me.