analsexonly wrote: ↑
Mon Oct 22, 2018 2:59 pm
Some of these comments are rude to the point of being offensive. Sure, vaginal to get pregnant is fine if that's what you want to do. But some of us like the idea of avoiding vaginal even for that and getting pregnant without vaginal intercourse if that's a possibility. This, of all places, should be a place where such ideas and desires can be discussed without shame or insult. If you're going to voice a counter opinion, do it without being rude.
I wholeheartedly agree. This is a forum dedicated to the idea that couples can and do live an anal only lifestyle. Some even have different ideas about what an anal only lifestyle is. Some believe you should have no clitoral stimulation. Some believe there should not be penetration of the vagina by any means (toys). Some believe one, or either of these are okay. The one thing all can agree upon is that an anal only lifestyle precludes vaginal penetration by the penis. Although most would agree the one exception to this is procreation, there are those who would choose otherwise.
I didn't see one post in this thread
about denying a woman pleasure. The porn BLOG is, as AnalSexOnly has often pointed out, more of a fantasy site, where a the pics and comments are reblogged. I don't look at or listen to things that offend me, so why would you look at the BLOG if you're offended by it and comment negatively about it here? That's like going into someone's house and telling them the decorating sucks.
There are thousands of websites and forums where you can freely discuss your love of vaginal sex, or anal and vaginal. This one, however, is for the discussion of the anal only lifestyle and how to evolve a relationship sexually to the point of being anal only, whether to the preclusion of clitoral/vaginal stimulation by artificial means or not. However, one thing it is not, is a website dedicated to the praise of vaginal sex. Go somewhere else for that.
This was the first time I think I told anyone my wife and I chose to have our child through artificial insemination. It was a personal decision made by both of us. Since beginning our anal only lifestyle, we had been (and still are) of the belief that vaginal sex should be reserved for procreation only. However, when the time came, we found any attempt at vaginal sex to be immensely uncomfortable and unenjoyable, to the degree she could not self-lubricate, and I could not cum. It was then that we made the decision to use artificial insemination. We should not be made to feel like it was a ridiculous decision to do so, especially on a forum dedicated to the anal only lifestyle.
I have never denied my wife whatever pleasure she desired. It was her that proposed having only anal sex. For a long time she used toys to penetrate herself vaginally about 60%-80% of the time, and/or provide clitoral stimulation during anal sex. This was primarily before we started practicing anal only. Now, she dislikes vaginal penetration of any type, but still uses a vibrator on her clit about 50% of the time. I never asked her or encouraged her to do this. It was a decision she made on her own. If other couples mutually choose not to have vaginal/clitoral stimulation while practicing the anal only lifestyle, that is their choice as well.
Just remember what your mother told you, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."