Questions about coconut oil

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Questions about coconut oil

Post by experimcouple » Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:24 am

My wife has just now agreed to attempt anal again after a long break!!! I have been reading about coconut oil being one of the best lubes out there for anal play. How do you experienced users like it with toys and are there any material toys to avoid (like silicone)? What are the main differences you noticed with it? Do you suggest virgin coconut oil or just coconut oil and do you just grab it from the grocery store or amazon (if amazon which one would you suggest there’s a million?)?

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Re: Questions about coconut oil

Post by Analien » Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:49 am

Hello and welcome here.

In my experience, Virgin coconut oil from the grocery store is the best.
It goes well with silicone plugs and beads, I haven't observed any damage on the toys since I started using it.

However, I wouldn't recommend using coconut oil for dildos or bigger toys as it does not provide sufficient lubrication.

I would also be very careful as to TPR material, it is better not to try this combination.

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Re: Questions about coconut oil

Post by luv2play45 » Sun Mar 24, 2019 10:24 am

We have been using coconut oil lately after our favorite lube, VO5 hair dressing, became hard to find.
Coconut oil is not a thick lube so some care and tenderness must be taken, at least in the initial warming up stage.
My wife likes it if I add a bit of spit to help with the initial lubrication.
One trick we have found that is a lot of fun is to make up a few coconut oil suppositories beforehand.
I use a melon baller to make the suppositories, put them in the freezer for a few minutes to get them hard and then gently push them in her ass.
She really likes it when I push the coconut oil plug part way in then let her push it out a bit, then push it back in again... well you get the idea.
The suppository slowly melts inside giving long lasting lubrication.

After she has had all the orgasms she wants I like to wipe her butt and myself with a towel to dry things up some.
I then enter her slowly and gently rock inside her until I cum.
I find the dryness very stimulating as her sphincter and rectum can really grip my shaft.

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Re: Questions about coconut oil

Post by TaurusAnal » Sat Nov 16, 2019 10:06 pm

We have only used coconut oil for the past three/four years. I used to work at Lover's Package, and I tried each type of lubricant with her. The coconut oil seems to make her feel like her interior skin is healthier and less likely to tear.

Ensure that you get high quality coconut oil, as some seem to have more grainy textures than others.

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Re: Questions about coconut oil

Post by Cruz » Mon Nov 18, 2019 8:44 pm

I have used the virgin coconut oil. Its ok but not the same as lube. But still when it comes to natural lubed..i recomend virgin coconut oil.

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Re: Questions about coconut oil

Post by BackDoorMan420 » Mon Dec 02, 2019 8:02 am

I have extremely sensitive skin, I got into using coconut oil because it's a natural product, so it doesn't irritate my skinnor cause any rashing or reactions. The plus side is that coconut oil doesn't taste like lube, so the mouth time doesn't have to stop when the oil comes out. That's a win/win in my books!

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