Her legs are spread , arms at her side, i can grab her tits, choke her and cover her mouth for breath play
She can grind and i can fuck her, shes little so that makes it easy
Doggie is great, but there's something to be said for a slow and intense pile driver approach with eyes on each other. That way I can see her orgasm coming, and slow it down or speed it up.
But then I also remember the times when I get to just lay back and let her be the agent of her own kink, and let her ride on top. Sometimes it works for her to be the one who's doing the deed to herself, and she sets her own pace which sometimes may be rougher or faster than what I'd try to do.