Freja wrote: ↑Thu Oct 22, 2020 1:13 amTo me it was about touching me just about enough to orgasm when having sex, then tried touching myself less and less to the point where I don’t need to touch myself at all to orgasm anymore.
I don’t get orgasms all the time but probably 8/10 times, and the orgasms are soo much better when I don’t touch myself just get stimulated from the sex
That's the best way - systematic reduction. One month of touching clit enough to orgasm. Next month only half the amount. The month after only 1/10 times to instill the orgasm connection with anal. It works well. Always make sure he's fucking anally while you orgasm. Once you get to the point where you can cum multiple times from his cock stretching your ass, it's pretty clear that no clit stimulation was needed. If you feel like it's hard not to touch your clit and you're committed to the best anal orgasms, discuss it with your partner. Tell him to stop you from touching yourself. You can fuck in positions where your hands are against a wall, or behind you or restrained and tied up. Do it for a while until you'll see how amazing it is without involving your vagina or clit.