New to anal, need info

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New to anal, need info

Post by g65389pon » Fri May 22, 2020 7:42 am

My wife and I used to do anal But not often. About 7 years ago she cut me off from anal because of ed issues. Last July I got an inflatable penile implant and can get hard as a rock. My wife finally agreed to anal again but she wanted to try it first. She said, for now in the shower only and no fore play. I want to get her worked up first but she says, no just lube up and slide in. Anyway, we’ve done it 3 times now and the last 2 times she got a sudden strong feeling of needing to go. So, my question is is this a normal feeling when first getting use to anal?
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Re: New to anal, need info

Post by julietagc » Fri May 22, 2020 2:01 pm

HI, you said than, you and you wife, used to do anal But not often.
If that was so, she should know, the feeling of needing to go is normal when you are new in anal.
after a while you adapt and you don't feel it anymore.

If you want to know why this happens, I will explain it to you.
Your brain has a kind of alert, every time it feels something in your rectum it thinks that you should go to the bathroom, so during the anal, you trick your brain and think that it should go even if it were not, with the Time for anal sex, your brain adjusts to this, and stops sending that alarm signal.

I think this is one of the reasons why many girls who try anal dont like it, because they have not had the opportunity to really feel it, since feeling the pleasure is after this sensation disappears.

I hope you find it useful, good luck
"break my ass not my heart" ;)

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Post by g65389pon » Fri May 22, 2020 5:43 pm

She might not remember the sensation idk. Your description is great and makes perfect sense. Iv has the feeling when she has pegged me.
Thanks for the reply!

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Post by julietagc » Sat May 23, 2020 3:58 am

g65389pon wrote:
Fri May 22, 2020 5:43 pm
She might not remember the sensation idk. Your description is great and makes perfect sense. Iv has the feeling when she has pegged me.
Thanks for the reply!

You are welcome, good luck and enjoy :D
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Re: New to anal, need info

Post by Gapeseeker » Wed May 27, 2020 10:30 pm

Well I fucked 2 girls in the ass tonight
It was quite amazing

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Post by g65389pon » Thu May 28, 2020 2:07 pm

Thanks, that’s helpful.

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Re: New to anal, need info

Post by g65389pon » Tue Jun 02, 2020 3:45 am

So, if she relaxes can she over come this feeling while in the act. Unfortunately now she is backing out and saying it does nothing for her. I told her that she needs to let me get her aroused and try it. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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Post by julietagc » Tue Jun 02, 2020 6:33 pm

g65389pon wrote:
Tue Jun 02, 2020 3:45 am
So, if she relaxes can she over come this feeling while in the act. Unfortunately now she is backing out and saying it does nothing for her. I told her that she needs to let me get her aroused and try it. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.

Relaxing, horny, it helps, but the point is that having anal sex a lot that feeling disappears, if you want help, dont go too deep, that feeling increases if you go deep and more if you go deep and fast, at least dont do it until she already It feels good, also make sure that she is clean.
"break my ass not my heart" ;)

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