You said exactly that (in broken English):
You also talk about "there is no one gene", when absolutely nobody ever suggested such a thing. Also, you have zero proof whatsoever, the reality is, nobody really knows about all of this. You speak about "facts", but science has wildly varied on all those subjects over the years, making several 180° turns, still not agreeing, and now only spouting vague "bio-psycho-social" generalities like you do here, which in reality mean: "we have no clue". The guys can't even agree on a virus, do you think they can agree on things like "where do homosexuality come from" or "where do predisposition for anal sex come from"? Come on. They just don't know, and you don't either. Just look at autism and how it went from: "it's because of how people are raised, no relation with biology whatsoever" to "it's very mostly a biological disease" (with actual facts to back that one up). Same with tons of other characteristics or diseases.
Also, notice how in "bio-psycho-social" there is "bio"? So you're just splitting hairs, really?
I'm talking about my experience to help someone, and you needlessly come contradicting me on my experience with a "I know better" attitude while missing the point, contradicting yourself, and in the end not saying anything really relevant, or even meaningful.
As for children privacy, you're lecturing someone who asks for help, boasting about your superior values and education, while not knowing much (if anything) about his situation. None of that is helpful. @FarmerDan made the same point while providing personal feedback about his own experience, and being much more tactful.