Mind change

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Mind change

Post by Luckylad » Tue Sep 22, 2020 3:50 am

Obviously on here we are all here for the same reason but how many of you were initially against anal had zero interest and what was the turning point?

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Re: Mind change

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Tue Sep 22, 2020 9:59 am

My wife was firmly against anal sex at one time. Of course, it didn't help that I slipped (no, really, I did). We were doggy style and going at it pretty hard when my cock slipped out of her vagina and I drove it balls deep into her tight, unprepared, virgin asshole. She probably cried for 30 minutes. After that, she made it clear she was dead set against anal sex, and she would never try it again.

Within a year, my wife was taking my cock balls deep in her ass every time we had sex. What changed? I found an adult movie in a parking lot. There was no label on the tape, so we, didn't know what it was. We watched the first scene (vaginal) and had sex. The next night we watched the second scene (also vaginal) and had sex. The third night we watched the third scene. It was a gangbang with lots of anal sex. When we had sex that night, my wife seemed more turned on than the previous two nights. We were in the doggy style position, and she would arch her back. I would remove my cock from her pussy and rub it across her ass hole. I noticed this seemed to turn her on, but she got off the next time I put my cock in her vagina. The next night, my wife had already queued the tape to the same scene. Each time I would remove my cock from her vagina, she would arch her back so that it ran across her ass hole. Then it happened. I just placed my cock against her ass hole and it relaxed a little as she pushed back. The head of my cock literally 'popped' past her sphincter. When this happened, we both had the most intense orgasm of our lives as I pumped my load into her ass hole for the first time. Over the course of the next three weeks, the same thing repeated itself every day, until I was finally balls deep in her ass. When we both realized I was buried balls deep in her rectum, we both had an orgasm that eclipsed anything we had ever experienced. After that, we were hooked. At that time, we were still having vaginal sex, but we always finished in her ass.

So, what was my wife's turning point? Incredible anal orgasms.

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Re: Mind change

Post by Samy » Tue Sep 22, 2020 4:05 pm

Interestingly, even when anal sex is the default, it may take time to really understand its potential.

I'm a gay bottom, but it's only after discovering analsexonly on Tumblr (straight anal porn has always turned me on) that I really got into anal itself. Before, like most gay bottoms, I was jacking off my cock while being penetrated, and anal was just an extra sensation and a mental turn-on while I jacked off. After reading analsexonly and his advice to masturbate anally (I never did that before, I only masturbated my cock) and to avoid clitoral stimulation (a clit is just a small cock, so I started to ignore my cock), I decided to try it, and it TOTALLY changed my mindset. Frankly, I wouldn't even say I was anal before that.

From that point, I learned to understand better and explore my anal pleasure through masturbation, and I focused purely on anal during sex, and my pleasure SKYROCKETED, there's simply no comparison whatsoever. Since my pleasure completely shifted, I followed analsexonly's advices even more drastically, and then I had my very first anal orgasms. From there, there was no way back.

All this to say that taboo and misunderstanding of the potential of anal can even happen when anal is all you can do.

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Re: Mind change

Post by FarmerDan » Wed Sep 23, 2020 7:56 pm

Thanks for this and other recent replies here, @LuvMyWifesAss - you and your wife are pretty iconic around here! Some questions I've been meaning you ask you
- what's your favorite position?
- how often do you use lube and how much?
- does your wife observe any sort of anal-friendly diet?
- do you think she has become more likely to be clean over the years? I have a theory (but little data) that a rectum that is looking forward to some pleasurable action is more likely to be empty than if the action is unexpected.

[Sorry if this means repeating yourself but new-ish members might have missed your earlier answers.]
It's a lifestyle folks not a 2 minute sprint

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Re: Mind change

Post by jack.fats » Thu Sep 24, 2020 2:30 am

(Incredible anal orgasms...) I agree

and it was all about turning my ex on anal by telling her a joke (translation from italian):

"Two women meets each other after long time; a nice chat occurs and surprisingly she found that she's still a Virgin...

..."it was all about using the backdoor (orig. 'it was a stroke of luck')"

She has been loving anal drills since then.

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Re: Mind change

Post by Samy » Thu Sep 24, 2020 2:50 am

FarmerDan wrote:
Wed Sep 23, 2020 7:56 pm
do you think she has become more likely to be clean over the years? I have a theory (but little data) that a rectum that is looking forward to some pleasurable action is more likely to be empty than if the action is unexpected.

In my experience, being fucked repeatedly in the ass and having your ass being your main sexual organ does make it generally (if not always) cleaner, because you control your ass much more efficiently, therefore relax and open up much more easily, which means that when you go to the bathroom, waste entirely goes away. It's even more true if you're 100% anal only with clit/penis denial and masturbate anally regularly.

If you're used to tease your colon/rectum fold when your masturbate, it makes it even easier, because your body is used to "line up" and open the fold internally.

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