In the course of my "studies" I have come across mention of the pudendal nerve (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pudendal_nerve). Women who really love anal told me that getting fucked in the ass is something they can feel all the way up their spine and all the way down to the tip of their clit. This makes me wonder whether some women are just "built differently" in such a way that their pudendal nerve runs closer to the anus and rectum, and those who don't get much joy from anal do not feel the same level of stimulation because their pudendal nerve runs along a slightly different path; less close to the anal region.
Have any of you ever encountered a woman (or a guy for that matter) who really wanted to enjoy anal but just couldn't? Someone where you are sure it wasn't a psychological thing, but they simply didn't "feel it"?
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However after doing a similar amount of diligent research (tough, but somebody has to do it, right?) I reckon mental and emotional factors play a bigger part.
I've had a couple of partners who had quite good anal on the first date but just couldn't get there the next time. In between they had a crisis of confidence, couldn't believe it had happened. I'm one case that was the end of the relationship.
For best results (except for the rare few seeking pain) the receiver has to be physically and emotionally very open. And then the sort of 'whole body' sensations you describe occur.
The journey to that point is half the fun!