What do others think?
As such it isn't a lifestyle choice, it is an orientation (now). I can't even discern whether i was born with a natural inclination to anal, because i never had the chance to be non-anal as a sexual person.
I go into a vagina on occasion, but sometimes more by mistake than intention. It isn't a lifestyle, it's who i am.
I think the name "Anal Enthusiasts" would attract more people as most guys would not want to give up pussy completely, even if like me, they prefer to have penetrative sex through the backdoor.
As far as 'lifestyle' goes, we have a LOT of anal fun. I like to be pegged n stuff so we use each others asses. Lifestyle I think refers to the act reaching beyond the bedroom, in that, for instance, if you go to work in the morning and have to remember to sit down gently because your ass has been hammered. Or your ass has trained itself to be self lubricating over the years and you have to make sure, just like a moist pussy, that you are not going to leave a visible wet stain in your pants. Or maybe you wear a butt plug out and about or a chastity device on your penis or labia (not personally into chastity gear) Maybe, as mentioned elsewhere, you like to keep your partners ass scent on your cock through the day - anything where the love of anal sex seeps into your daily life when you are not actually having sex - that would be a lifestyle. I guess I am currently an anal enthusiast, rather than AO. Like being a motorcycle enthusiast, but you still drive a car. However AO can be a huge turn on and challenge and an interesting and exciting stimulant in a relationship, even working up asking the question and making the decision and how that conversation even gets started. But yes, our sex life, and largely due to the amount of anal we have, be it with toys, fingers, hands, my cock, whatever, our sex life affects our daily life somewhat - so I guess that is a life style
I love to see us as anal exclusive couple. And simply because we want to. Because we don’t feel any need for vaginal penetration anymore. I loved ass to pussy for a short time. But now I don’t even miss that, even knowing she will never mind me switching to her pussy.
Maybe the correct descripion would be ass to mouth couple, cause atm is always possible for my girlfriend. Just the other day we had this amazing long assfuck, and after my orgasm I pulled out, lay on my back and she licked the spilled sperm from my cock saying “I always wanted to do this”. Next she cleaned my cock with her mouth. It’s the nicest thing she could do for me. I love it so much.
Lifestyle no. Choice yes. But as a name for the forum it has a nice ring to it.