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When it comes to having anal sex with your loved one do you prefer it clean or messy with regards to ?

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LindyLovesAnal wrote: ↑

Sun Nov 22, 2020 6:48 am

This came up in a private discussion with another member of our little community.

When it comes to having anal sex with your loved one do you prefer it clean or messy with regards to ?

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Which do you prefer? I can go either way.

Yeah I'm either way too, I'm normally pretty clean, if a little mess happens I'm not disappointed though.

I prefer clean so then I can stick my tongue inside of the asshole

Messy doesn’t bother me, but my wife gets a little self conscious. A small towel wipes it away, and what she really wants is a strong anal orgasm, so it’s never stopped us from what we love to do.

I like sex to be spontaneous and so if it involves my arse, there is a good chance it will be messy. I am ok with this. The smell is arousing and there is something very sexy about seeing a cock emerge from my bottom streaked with brown and all stinky.

Hmm ... clean!

But when shit happens, i take it as a variety ...

I voted clean, but with a condition not stated. For myself, the ritualized process of getting my body clean is integral to the whole scene.

If we are pressed for time then it doesn't matter.

Ever since I started having sex getting a nice big enema (and or douche) has been a part of the process (no, its not necessary, just as plates and forks aren't necessary for one to dine either.)

In our first home with a basement there was a shower head over the floor drain (an old house, it had a coal fired heater and bin originally). Marc and Matt rigged a hand held shower head and put up several shower curtains to create a big square area over the drain.

Vicky and I had our own days and depending on visiting playmates and the work schedule we had "chance" days. The "star of the day" was stripped naked (if she wasn't already) in the kitchen. Her fat labia were cleaned and then temporarily pierced shut with, say three, big safety (cloth diaper) pins. She was collared and cuffed (invariably neck and wrist -- and sometimes ankle bicep and thigh) leashed and taken down to the basement.

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The leash and or cuffs were attached and the "star" was cleaned out over the drain as her lovers/tormentors played with her naked and helpless body. Those curtains were in a "C" shape protecting the wood bench, bondage table, chair, and cross** Matt and Marc had made.

"The star" was not consulted, her lovers decided among themselves how she would be used. After she was clean she was used as they had decided beforehand. We had a sofa and chairs and little tables for refreshments. The star was kept hydrated and the sessions often lasted for hours before exhausted she was cleaned again (at which time she was typically unsealed*) for bed.

Elisabeth

*Safety pins move the skin rather than cut it irritating more nerve endings -- pain is an abstraction, there is only stimulation -- and the genital area gets lots of blood flow. Young healthy people heal very quickly.
**Overstimulation is great fun, injury is not, someone was always looking out for "the star" when she was bound.

Messy is a turn-on for me. When it gets a little dirty, the view and the smell makes me feel I was really deep inside the other person. Too much cleaniness and it does not feel real, more like if you were having sex with a silicone doll.

All my men and me prefer natural, "as is". No enemas, they can negatively influence bacteria in the colon. No need of long preparations, it is better to go to sex immediately. If it is clean, then clean. If it is messy, then messy
Yes, it is an additional turn-on