I just want some assurance.

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yrtxzh5a47
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I just want some assurance.

Post by yrtxzh5a47 » Tue Jan 05, 2021 12:33 am

Hello.

So these are questions for all the ladies. For those who engage in anal sex, how many years have you been having it? Have you've had any long term negative effects of it like tearing, bacterial infections or fecal incontinence? Have you ever had a fistual? Do the anal ring become lose over time because you have anal sex every day?

I'm just concerned about the risk because I'm deciding whether I should engage in anal sex with my woman.

So I would like as many replys as possible for some assurance.

Thank you.

Dania
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by Dania » Tue Jan 05, 2021 4:59 am

Hello,
I use a dildo on my ass most days for a few years now and I have no problems.

Munchkin86
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by Munchkin86 » Tue Jan 05, 2021 6:20 am

No problems here :D.

Pluggedkitty
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by Pluggedkitty » Tue Jan 05, 2021 7:14 am

Hi! I've been having anal sex occasionally for over 15 years. More frequently recently. 😁

I used to have some minor tearing, but that was due mostly to lack of preparation. An ass needs to be able to stretch, that either take time or practice. The right mental attitude is also critical!

I use a butt plug daily and that has helped me prevent tears. I've learned to be able to relax and open for sex, but when done my ass closes with no issues.

I don't use "huge" plugs, large enough to simulate a penis but with a small neck to close around when inserted. And I want anal so mentally that gets me excited for sex. Plus it feels great.

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Canassman
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by Canassman » Tue Jan 05, 2021 12:40 pm

Almost 30 years of anal with my wife, the last 6 have been anal only. She’s as tight as ever, just has better control over her muscles. No issues at all, just pleasure.

Lisalovesanal
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by Lisalovesanal » Tue Jan 05, 2021 1:25 pm

I’ve been anal only for 6 years and had anal sex often prior to that. I’ve never had any issues. Even when lately hubby has been trying to fist my arsehole, there is no issue. I wear a plug most days and it’s fine. Just relax. That’s key. Take it slow and you’ll learn to love it. Communication and trust are the two important factors. The rest will be pure pleasure.
You had me at anal ;)

SydneyAussie
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by SydneyAussie » Tue Jan 05, 2021 1:45 pm

It's been years now. Absolutely no issues whatsoever.
True Happiness is a being with a Woman who is Anal Only

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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by LuvMyWifesAss » Tue Jan 05, 2021 7:30 pm

I would recommend taking a look at the guide (line at the top of the page). As long as you listen to your partner, and she listens to her body, you shouldn't have any problems.

My wife and I have been having anal sex for about 30 years, anal only for the past 15. We both have a high libido, so we've probably averaged anal sex four times a week much of that time. In all that time, I experienced one reproductive tract infection, that my doctor said could have just as likely been caused by oral sex as anal. A week of antibiotics later and things were back to normal.

Early on, my wife would often be sore and might need to take a break for a day or two. That quickly subsided, though. In 2019 we challenged ourselves to have anal sex every day (at least 365 times). Despite some life challenges taking place, we reached our goal. Sadly I can't remember the exact number, but I think it was just short of 400. My wife really wanted to make it, so we had anal sex in the morning and evening on many days. That way, if we missed a day, it wasn't a big deal.

What I can tell you is that anal sex will bring a level of intimacy to your relationship that seems lacking with vaginal sex. Not only that, but I believe we have more sex as a result.

yrtxzh5a47
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by yrtxzh5a47 » Wed Jan 06, 2021 1:06 am

Dania wrote:
Tue Jan 05, 2021 4:59 am
Hello,
I use a dildo on my ass most days for a few years now and I have no problems.

Thanks for the reply.

yrtxzh5a47
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Re: I just want some assurance.

Post by yrtxzh5a47 » Wed Jan 06, 2021 1:07 am

Munchkin86 wrote:
Tue Jan 05, 2021 6:20 am
No problems here :D.

Thanks for the reply.

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