So these are questions for all the ladies. For those who engage in anal sex, how many years have you been having it? Have you've had any long term negative effects of it like tearing, bacterial infections or fecal incontinence? Have you ever had a fistual? Do the anal ring become lose over time because you have anal sex every day?
I'm just concerned about the risk because I'm deciding whether I should engage in anal sex with my woman.
So I would like as many replys as possible for some assurance.
I used to have some minor tearing, but that was due mostly to lack of preparation. An ass needs to be able to stretch, that either take time or practice. The right mental attitude is also critical!
I use a butt plug daily and that has helped me prevent tears. I've learned to be able to relax and open for sex, but when done my ass closes with no issues.
I don't use "huge" plugs, large enough to simulate a penis but with a small neck to close around when inserted. And I want anal so mentally that gets me excited for sex. Plus it feels great.
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My wife and I have been having anal sex for about 30 years, anal only for the past 15. We both have a high libido, so we've probably averaged anal sex four times a week much of that time. In all that time, I experienced one reproductive tract infection, that my doctor said could have just as likely been caused by oral sex as anal. A week of antibiotics later and things were back to normal.
Early on, my wife would often be sore and might need to take a break for a day or two. That quickly subsided, though. In 2019 we challenged ourselves to have anal sex every day (at least 365 times). Despite some life challenges taking place, we reached our goal. Sadly I can't remember the exact number, but I think it was just short of 400. My wife really wanted to make it, so we had anal sex in the morning and evening on many days. That way, if we missed a day, it wasn't a big deal.
What I can tell you is that anal sex will bring a level of intimacy to your relationship that seems lacking with vaginal sex. Not only that, but I believe we have more sex as a result.