Thoughts on Orgasm denial

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Thoughts on Orgasm denial

Post by buttstufffan » Sun Feb 28, 2021 6:32 pm

I'm really into the orgasm denial side of anal stuff. I get a massive masochistic thrill knowing that hes using my butt and not letting me touch my clit so that only he gets to cum. So I was wondering how many people here are also into orgasm denial.

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Re: Thoughts on Orgasm denial

Post by clouds » Mon Mar 01, 2021 3:44 am

I know what you mean 8-) but I personally wouldn't call my experience "denial". Having only anal stimulation can feel very satisfying. I do love that my anal orgasms are intense and feel amazing but without the crash I experience from a "normal" orgasm. I keep my sexual energy.
Sex doesn't have to be about orgasm all the time. It's about intimacy, feeling each other, turning off your head and listening to your body, being dominant/submissive, letting go... Etc! Anal only is a great way to explore other aspects of sexual love than just making each other cum, or use your partner for your own needs.

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Re: Thoughts on Orgasm denial

Post by analogue » Mon Mar 15, 2021 4:13 am

clouds wrote:
Mon Mar 01, 2021 3:44 am
Sex doesn't have to be about orgasm all the time.

Thats so true ...
Free Your Mind and Your Ass Will Follow ...

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Re: Thoughts on Orgasm denial

Post by Minty » Wed May 05, 2021 3:17 pm

Hi :)
We are in Master/slave (+ DD, S/m) marriage and my husband uses orgasm denials very often, and also very often my butt/body is only for his pleasure.

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Re: Thoughts on Orgasm denial

Post by sako13 » Thu May 06, 2021 8:06 pm

My wife and I have led an anal only lifestyle for nearly 9 years now.
And lead a strict Dom/ sub lifestyle as well.
Initially I used cum denial as a method of training and disciplining her but after 8 years of strict no vaginal or clitoral stimulation of any kind she can cum for anal multiple times for anal.
I have found the best way to prevent her from cumming is to keep her plugged for the majority of the day until I wish to use her ass, and then if she cums deny her plugging or anal for a period of time.
She uses self inflicted nipple pain as a method to distract her from her orgasms but we now find that too is setting her off.
I’m afraid after such an extended period of anal only it is nearly impossible to avoid her cumming during anal as her body craves it.
And to be honest I prefer to achieve my own orgasm than stop start while she tries to control herself.
As we just run with it.
In fact our main problem is now that she cums so often from anal she begs me to stop as she is so sensitive and wears her physically and mentally out. 😂

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