Anal has been a journey cause my wife was not initially open to the idea of anal sex. Now after 7 years of anal, we are starting to hit a stride as my wife is able to orgasm which has been amazing. In that time, my wife has gone from not thinking she would able to enjoy anal, to being at the point where she is so into it that she will literally yell out things like “pound my asshole” as I plunder her balls deep and she admits that anal feels really good.
But never, not once, has my wife done any special preparation for anal. We of course make sure our anal experiences are out of sync of her bathroom schedule and that she feels “clean” from a hygiene perspective. In fact, although we’ve never talked about it, I am confident that she would be opposed to an enema or anything special in terms of preparation.
All this said, we have NEVER had a problem with any sort of smell, nor any evidence at all of fecal matter. I can literally have my cock to the hilt in her ass, both of us cum, and when we are done, my cock, her asshole and the sheets are all clean as a whistle, even after just falling asleep naked for the night.
My question is; how do others prepare for anal sex as our experience says that outside of normal hygiene, nothing special is needed?
We don’t have a bidet but my wife does have small squeeze bottle that she uses externally to feel clean, for both vaginal and anal.
Can’t wait to plunder my wife’s ass again, anal is so perfect and her ass is nice and thick. Good times!
Like your stories, my wife has spectacular anal orgasms, and she squirts. 36+ years of marriage and she never had an orgasm from penetrative vaginal sex. When we both started hormone therapy, she responded differently to anal play and the rest is history. I never imagined we’d be having anal sex twice a week in our 60’s. Because her orgasms are so intense, mine are far better too. My wife regrets she didn’t welcome anal in our sex lives long ago. That’s in the rearview mirror and there’s nothing but great anal sex ahead of us. Been a while since I posted, but glad to read others have had similar, great anal experiences.
Daly and spontaneous anal can be always clean.
1) Buy a Bidet and use it after going to the toilet.
2) when you are into the foreplay, could be after a good rimming, just use your longer finger to put in on her asshole to the deepest point your finger can go. It is the continuation of the foreplay and the test to check if the ass is empty. If you touch something, you just have to do vaginal, do dirty anal or wait until she goes to the toilet. This is my personal system. and always worked for me.
I myself always clean with a shower nozzle. She never really does much with my ass except - every once in a while - maybe slide a slender finger in when she is taking me into her mouth, but I just like to be all clean and fresh for my anal-only queen.