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Izabela wrote: ↑

Mon Dec 27, 2021 11:24 pm

You are probably right. I hope i will convience him to not hang it in the main room.

If I see “I hope I can convince him”, I see that he indeed owns you. Am I right ? Are you submissive ?

Backdoorlover wrote: ↑

Tue Dec 28, 2021 3:33 am

Izabela wrote: ↑

Mon Dec 27, 2021 11:24 pm

You are probably right. I hope i will convience him to not hang it in the main room.

If I see “I hope I can convince him”, I see that he indeed owns you. Am I right ? Are you submissive ?

Well i think that i always was a bit submissive. But with him i'm much more submissive than before. I've dicussed it with one friend in his opinion the painting message is to glorify my change. My sex life has changed a lot since last year.

Hello, It's a nice and hot detail but, no, it shouldn't be in the living room, maybe in your bed room but not in the room where they come, vicits, family, friends, even children, that is, no, absolutely not, but in the privacy of your bed room it would look good. that's my opinion.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year xD

Thank you for all of the opinions

Izabela wrote: ↑

Sun Dec 26, 2021 3:36 am

My fiance gave me an unusal christmas gift. He ordered a painting that was painted based on a picture of us having sex (We decided to take a few pics during sex,i didnt knew that he was going to use them that way). In the painting you can easy recognize that we are making anal love, my face and other parts are also exposed. He wants us to hang the painting in the living room. I have mixed feeling. Nobody ever gave me a painting of myself. The idea was great but i think it should be hidden. I do not want all of the gests(including our parents) to see us or me like this. What do you think?

He wants you to offcialy accept the role of his sex toy. A painting like this in your appartment will be a nice confirmation that you are his submissive slut. It is nothing to be ashame of.

Yeah it's weird to say because technically it is YOUR house, however I think in a living groom where it is generally accepted that others will be if they come over, it probably isn't a great idea. As much as I like the idea of everyone in this group being open, from a general social perspective many people might be caught off guard and put off, especially if children come over.

Again It's YOUR house but it might be easier to save yourselves from the headache later on lol.

People look. Being open about your lifestyle is one thing. But hanging a pornographic painting in your livingroom is not “normal”. Period.

Plus am I the only man here who says this is not normal ?
Well for the men who say it is, I ask you this. You get invited into her appartment and when you come in you see a painting hanging there on which it’s shown in full display that her boyfriend fucks your daughters ass. Would you be proud that she’s his submissive slut ?

If you mix private domain with public then, by definition, it loses its prized characteristics.

Let me know if you hang the picture in the living room so I know what house not to go into. Really, it's not only tasteless - it pushes anyone who comes to your house into knowing all about your sex life.

Ya, a step too far me thinks. People would be unwittingly exposed to something they may not want to see, and once done can not be undone. If you never let anyone in your home or only people who know what to expect, OK; but that may not be a healthy way to live.
You could host it somewhere online and post it here or make it your avatar, if that is allowable by the rules. I get that showing the picture openly somehow makes your submissive status official, like some draw up official Dom/sub contracts. While there can be eroticism in letting people see/know stuff about you, it isn't ideal to potentially make family and friends feel bad/uncomfortable, sex is for your pleasure not other peoples discomfort (unless you're into discomfort, but even then that should be between you and your partner). There is also the alternative idea that having friends and family round, sat round the coffee table and thinking, "Ha! you guys don't know quite what we get up to, do you? I took his load in my ass this morning, and he's gonna destroy my butt again tonight, for sure!" But actually saying, "anyone want another cup of tea?" You see, there can be fun in people not knowing/seeing also. Hope I didn't speak out of turn, and ultimately it is up to you, of course
Let the forum know what happens will you?