Is everybody having sex ?

[Backdoorlover]

All sudden this forum feels abandoned.

I know forums got made obsolete by social media, but to me forums still have a charm that I will never get from socials. A few moths there was some gained animo here and I hoped we were on the right path…. Than it dropped dead

To the lurkers (reading and not writing) please write. A forum exist through it’s writers, not through it’s readers.

[Ozzy]

I like this forum and I always come back to check what's being discussed.

There's an anal only forum on reddit, and it's much more engaged than this one. But I like the fact that here I'm more anonymous, which is very important to me.

About the lurkers, well, it's one thing to look at the messages, another thing is taking the risk to express himself/herself and feel exposed.

After all, we all know how much taboo there's involved in this topic. But I also miss people here being more outspoken.

Particularly, it never ceases to amaze me that there are women actually engaged in this lifestyle. This is super exciting, and I always come with the hopes I'll see some lady speaking out..... But sure, I like the guys' inputs too.

In the end, people are free to do whatever they want and we can control just our own actions, not the others'.

[jack.fats]

Dude @Backdoorlover,
people are working, we're all on different time zones and yes, they're enjoying -or had enjoyed- backdoor sessions (or wonder if it's going to happen in due course)...

No drama, we're on the same side sometimes!

[Gapeseeker]

Nope, been over 2 weeks. Hurt my back and it’s the worse feelings ever.

[hdean667]

It is definitely slow.

[FarmerDan]

I guess everyone's too busy doing it to talk about it

[PetieT]

Unfortunately, the forums are really getting bogged down these days. It's not inconceivable

[hasani2222]

I've been kinda MIA because of being stressed at work and being sick for a while with COVID. So I think Spring time in general is a busy time for everyone. I tend to jerk off and watch porn when I don't have the energy to really entertain or interact. lol

[semi-normal]

It was this thread that motivated me to stop lurking and join and recently I did. There are many of us lurkers just wanting to learn and absorb and feel accepted, without wanting to expose ourselves. I felt an obligation after learning so much from the people writing, and from identifying with them. It's like a special club.

Thank you to all of you who write. There is comfort in knowing I'm not a weirdo (and most of us who follow this site) after all, that anal is normal, natural, pleasurable and common. It is sad that I learned this later in life.

[Backdoorlover]

That’s why I say: a forum is as good as it’s active members.

If you click the tab “unanswered topics” you can see how many topics even don’t get replies. And that’s a bit sad.