Any specific sex rules with your partner?
Posted: Mon Jul 24, 2023 10:07 pm
Thought it may be fun for those of us who have "rules" to share them with others. Normally dominant and submissive share some rules, but it can be any couple really. My wife and I have some rules that sometimes change and evolve but this is the most recent:
- She only wears dresses (this rule is not always observed as there are times she wears shorts or pants, but I would say a good 95% of the time)
- No panties (there are rare occasions where she insist on wearing them depending on the occasion and who will be there)
- No vaginal penetration ever
- She is not allowed to cum except for once a month in anyway of her choosing without vaginal penetration
- She is also allowed to cum as often as often as she wants in a public setting as long as she is wearing a short dress and no panties. This is almost exclusively done with my finger. She can come pretty fast and it's pretty hard.
- She is edged several times thought-out the day, and of course during play. (This is a relatively new rule, replacing the never be vaginally touched rule, and it's been working out much better for us)
- Anal every other day. This was supposed to be daily but she has been needing recovery time, and sometimes it's 2 days of recovery. She was doing daily anal for a short period a few years ago so I'm trying to get her back to that.
Fun story about dresses and no panties. When we first started that journey many years ago, we were about to go out and I told her she had to take off her panties. She said that if she had to not wear panties she will need to change into a different dress. I agreed, but I totally was not expecting that she would come out in an even shorter dress. A white baby doll dress that barely covered her ass. I didn't say anything so I wouldn't accidentally talk her out of it. It was just barley appropriate. Sometime later I asked her about and she said that it was looser and that it covered her better. Made no sense to me. But very recently she revealed some things which I discussed in another post and said she put on that shorter dress on purpose, because she knew I would like it and it turned her on. I can't tell you how many times I jacked off thinking about my wife putting on a shorter dress BECAUSE she had to take off her panties and it was more slutty that way. All this time I was never sure if that was really the case. Now knowing it was just makes that fantasy a reality. Now years later we are always looking for the perfect short dress that is just short enough to cover but still be a huge turn on to wear. It makes her wet, and knowing that makes me hard.
Share your own rules and stories I'm sure everyone would love to read.
- She only wears dresses (this rule is not always observed as there are times she wears shorts or pants, but I would say a good 95% of the time)
- No panties (there are rare occasions where she insist on wearing them depending on the occasion and who will be there)
- No vaginal penetration ever
- She is not allowed to cum except for once a month in anyway of her choosing without vaginal penetration
- She is also allowed to cum as often as often as she wants in a public setting as long as she is wearing a short dress and no panties. This is almost exclusively done with my finger. She can come pretty fast and it's pretty hard.
- She is edged several times thought-out the day, and of course during play. (This is a relatively new rule, replacing the never be vaginally touched rule, and it's been working out much better for us)
- Anal every other day. This was supposed to be daily but she has been needing recovery time, and sometimes it's 2 days of recovery. She was doing daily anal for a short period a few years ago so I'm trying to get her back to that.
Fun story about dresses and no panties. When we first started that journey many years ago, we were about to go out and I told her she had to take off her panties. She said that if she had to not wear panties she will need to change into a different dress. I agreed, but I totally was not expecting that she would come out in an even shorter dress. A white baby doll dress that barely covered her ass. I didn't say anything so I wouldn't accidentally talk her out of it. It was just barley appropriate. Sometime later I asked her about and she said that it was looser and that it covered her better. Made no sense to me. But very recently she revealed some things which I discussed in another post and said she put on that shorter dress on purpose, because she knew I would like it and it turned her on. I can't tell you how many times I jacked off thinking about my wife putting on a shorter dress BECAUSE she had to take off her panties and it was more slutty that way. All this time I was never sure if that was really the case. Now knowing it was just makes that fantasy a reality. Now years later we are always looking for the perfect short dress that is just short enough to cover but still be a huge turn on to wear. It makes her wet, and knowing that makes me hard.
Share your own rules and stories I'm sure everyone would love to read.