Chicken or the egg porn question

[Rimmer]

In another thread @Colt1911 said: " we prefer certain amateur couples recording their anal sex than the best professionally produced porn from the 80’s and 90’s"

If it's in focus, I find a lot of amateur/home made porn - people just filming what they get up to, better than professional porn, though there are some very erotic professional scenes, to be fair.
Someone once said to me, "isn't that just a porn thing, people don't really do that, do they? Are you just wanting to copy some porn scene?" No, actually I had figured out what I liked to do all by myself!

So what do you guys and gals think? In general, are people copying and being led by porn or is porn trying to reflect what people actually get up to. I get that media can spread the word and trigger trends. One girl is found to have learnt to take a cock beyond her tonsils and lets her guy cum in her throat instead of her mouth, someone makes a film about it and it becomes a thing that other people want to do - not saying that's how deepthroating came about, maybe lots of people discovered it independently, but you get my drift.

Any thoughts or observances about this? Has porn triggered you into wanting to try something or does it just pander to a desire you already have?

[Canassman]

This is a question I ponder from time to time. I first saw anal sex in an old vhs porn tape… but when I did, it was like a revelation to me. I was instantly aware that I wanted to do this. It has never occurred to me before.

So, did it inspire me to do anal, or did it reveal to me a pre-existing fetish that I was unaware of. I tend to the it’s the latter.

[Colt1911]

@Canassman I believe anal porn helped provide the spark that peaked my interest and desire for anal sex. Perhaps it was the taboo aspect or the fact it looked like it felt good for both partners.

A must for us in any anal porn is that the woman must genuinely enjoy it. As I’ve often said, the more intense my wife’s anal orgasm, the more intense my orgasm will be. Unlike vaginal penetration, I can feel a great anal session in my cock and groin for hours. There’s nothing better than anal.

[Canassman]

@Canassman I believe anal porn helped provide the spark that peaked my interest and desire for anal sex. Perhaps it was the taboo aspect or the fact it looked like it felt good for both partners.

A must for us in any anal porn is that the woman must genuinely enjoy it. As I’ve often said, the more intense my wife’s anal orgasm, the more intense my orgasm will be. Unlike vaginal penetration, I can feel a great anal session in my cock and groin for hours. There’s nothing better than anal.

Agreed, my wife and I like to see porn where the woman is clearly enjoying herself. And once my wife realized she could cum without touching her pussy, she understood pleasure better and has never gone back to anything but anal sex and anal orgasms.

[AnalWizard]

Never underestimate the depravity of humanity.

Porn might capture something, but people have done crazy shit for centuries. Especial people in positions of power. Just read about some of the Roman emperors

[hdean667]

I had my formative years in the 80s where anal sex was for gays only. I remember learning about a gal who was into anal and thinking it was a bit odd. Later, I had a GF who was a curious massochist. After having me fuck her ass I was ready for more. A few years after we broke up I was in a movie rental place and went into the adult sextion to see if there was any anal porn. That was the first time I rented porn. I think it was Ed Power's New Ends series and it had a gal in it by the name if Christy Lynn (Spelling might be wrong) who was sexy as fuck. That only cemented my want for anal.

So, it was actually doing it first and then came the porn.

[GreatWhite]

I think some amateur couples are better to watch because many genuinely enjoy what they're doing.

[Colt1911]

I think some amateur couples are better to watch because many genuinely enjoy what they're doing.

You can tell the reactions and orgasms are genuine. We enjoy porn that reflects our experience. It’s a powerful feeling watching a woman cum with your cock in her ass.

[Peachy V]

I think porn influences people to try more extreme things. Whether people like it or not depends on the individual but I am sure there are lots of people who would be more than happy having traditional vanilla sex that are experimenting more because of what they see in porn.

I'm think this can be good and bad. Trying things is healthy but porn is fantasy. It's not a how to manual.

[MindUnlocker]

I would say porn works specially well when you don't know exactly what do you really want at the very beginning, like show the possibilities and check whats really turns you on.

After to know pretty well what do you like and want for your own life, when I watch some porn the only thing I really want to see is a stable couple fucking with a great anal content, both trully enjoying the act. Without need to watch the camera or too much atrezzo / makeup / getting ready a scenario. I look for a real thing, reflecting in some ways what I would do with my own wife If I would have the time/chance/intimacy-no-kids-at-home.

Thats why I love to watch couples as Danika Mori, or Sweetkiarita started to dissapoint me because they're started to share and become more porn stars than just a couple. Cherry Aleksa, mynewprofession, shykinky18, wirtoly, arrestme, schnuggie, madeincanarias, and so many others, sooner or later takes porn industry too much serius, start to sharing and making threesomes and automatically my interest drops off in their channel.

But its just my way to feel and undestand it.