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I've just been told by my gf that she will not do anal anymore.
Apparently it's not normal or something.

Is it really that wrong to appreciate a woman that way?

Am I missing something? I don't think I'm that deviant...

I guess she she had a talk with some friend who conviced her only gay men want anal.

As I understand it first she did anal ? Did she like it ?

PreferAnal wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 18, 2023 5:21 am

I've just been told by my gf that she will not do anal anymore.
Apparently it's not normal or something.

Is it really that wrong to appreciate a woman that way?

Am I missing something? I don't think I'm that deviant...

There are women on this forum who would tell your girlfriend otherwise. I suspect many of us would consider ourselves normal but desire nothing but anal sex. If she physically and emotionally enjoyed it before, you should encourage her to forget about what others might think. If she orgasmed during anal sex it will be easier to convince her to return to anal.

She might have read something about health risks on the internet? That has stopped me from having anal sex from time to time!

Try to ask her why she’s come to this conclusion. Be curious and don’t judge her whatever she tells you.

Hopefully you can find a way forward that suits both of you if you talk openly about the issue.

Short answer, no, that's absolutely nothing wrong about liking anal.

Respecting yourself and your partner(s), it's fantastic.

A lot of that comes from religious beliefs. I'm wouldn't be surprised if your gf is religious and saw or heard something that says sodomy is wrong. Sad part is she may really enjoy it but is just keeping herself from doing it.

Yes, it might be a religious thing and also she might be thinking about wanting a family and stated clearly that anal is completely off the table.

We had such fun over the years, I think I'm missing something.

If she first did it and then suddenly decides she can’t anymore, I see a ligit reason to say the relationship is not what it used to be and you can go seperate ways.

This is just the same thing as she suddenly refusing anal after doing it before. Any form of sex refusal is a recipe for trouble.

If she previously was ok with anal and now is not, it is a BIG red flag. Could be one of many reasons and these ares are for you to discover.
As someone wrote on this site (paraphrasing), "if the heart is accepting, the ass is accepting".

I’d have to agree with @Backdoorlover. If she knows you really love anal and suddenly decided it’s “off the table”, that’s disrespectful to you and your wants and needs. If she’s unwilling to reconsider, it may be time to find another lover.