Question for the women of AO

[analgapeluvr]

I’ve been using this site for a few days now and I’ve talked to quite a few men about their experience with AO but now I’m curious about all the ladies on here. What made you become AO? How did you discover that you liked anal?

[Backdoorlover]

My girlfriend isn’t on the site so I will answer what she told me.

She has never liked sex as a whole. Not oral and not vaginal. Is was more something she did because it was expected instead of doing it for the joy of it.

Somewhere in her second marriage her then husband suggested anal and she wanted to try. Soon she discovered that it suddenly became easy to orgasm while some sort of stimulation of her asshole was being done. So assfucks became a regular for them. But with him she still didn’t like sex, still. She did like anal.

Fast forward to starting the relationship with me.

It was the first time ever for her, she was 49 with 4 kids, that she felt a real urge to have sex with a man. Lucky me. When we started having sex it was only oral and vaginal. It was the first time in her life she orgasmed from vaginal sex without clit stim.

What I didn’t know was that meanwhile she felt the urge to be assfucked by me. But she said “you can do whatever you want with me” and of course anal came to my mind right away. I did some anal with my exes and loved it.

Right after our first time assfucking we both knew this was the right kinda sex for us. Half a year later we talked about going anal only, tried it for a month and soon that was 2 years ago. We both love anal so much and we both never miss vaginal. Her asshole feels divine every time, while her pussy feels off.

She says anal feel more intimate, she feels a lot more pleasure, but it’s mostly the emotional connection we feel when my cock is in her ass. We keep telling eachother it’s like her asshole is made to receive my cock. We will never get tired of anal sex, that’s for sure. She never orgasms without something in her asshole. My cock, a plug, my fingers, … she needs something in her asshole to cum. I am glad to help her with that. And I feel lucky that I am the man who turned her into a ass to mouth loving sex freak. She absolutely loves sex now, I can use her every day. It’s all good for her. Slow, hard, quicky, being my anal cumslut, fuck for an hour. She loves it all with me.

[Colt1911]

@analgapeluvr I’ll answer on behalf of my wife. We’re anal only because of her anal orgasms. She didn’t orgasm during vaginal penetration, only through clit stimulation. She loves the feeling and could care less about vaginal penetration. We include clit play and denial during anal, but when she orgasms she stops touching her clit. In short, she’d say it’s all about the orgasm… or two.

[LindyLovesAnal]

I’ve been using this site for a few days now and I’ve talked to quite a few men about their experience with AO but now I’m curious about all the ladies on here. What made you become AO? How did you discover that you liked anal?

My husband and I had a dead bedroom, we maybe had sex once or twice a year, I never enjoyed sex and would rarely ever orgasm even while masturbating on my own.

I was chatting on Reddit with another woman and she joking suggested I try anal play with myself. Well the seed was planted and I read up a little then eventually I gave it a try while masturbating on my own. I expected to not like it but it was actually very pleasant when my finger first slipped in. By the end I'd orgasmed and the experience had been good so I carried on and it became just a part of my self pleasure routine.

After I discovered it I liked it and found it pleasurable I just moved up to toys, starting with plugs, then dildos. I found I would orgasm consistently if I had something in my butt while I played with my clit.

Then I started having sex with my husband again and over time we gradually phased out anything vaginal. We're six years Anal Only now and have since explored every sexual kink. Now we have a trans girlfriend who has joined our family and we are going Double Anal Only for No Pussy November and really enjoying it.

[atmisnormal]

ffs you are my hero! what a journey!

[Divorced]

One guy i dated was anal only and guided me to think about it. Now i'm in an anal only relationship and i cannot complain. We are trying out new things

[Analonlylady]

Anal only is a big part of our power exchange dynamic along with denial. He made it very clear that he does not want any type of vaginal sex from the outset. I agreed to this as i have previous anal sex experience so i was not afraid of the act or concept. At this point he has trained my ass so well that we don’t need much lube and mostly dry anal. I know he can bend me over at anytime and fuck my ass. Makes my submission to him deeper. I enjoy it and dont miss vag sex at all. He got me to squirt via anal… all done for me…. Anal slut for life

[TelJ2003]

I was AO when I was 17. My boyfriend at the time preferred anal and oral sex so it became our standard. We also did DP and that was when I discovered ATM and that became our variation. When we split up my subsequent boyfriends were not interested in anal so oral became my preferred intimacy. My interest in anal reoccurred with my present boyfriend. Although we only did oral I noticed my ass wanting to get involved so I began anal masturbation and really enjoyed it and my boyfriend loves rimming me. ***News Flash*** We had anal sex for the first time last night. Omg it was the most amazing sexual experience in my life. While I didn't have an anal orgasm it felt incredible. He was so gentle and when I said I wanted him to finish in my mouth he asked me a few times if I was sure. I want it again tonight

[Sarah42]

My husband slipped a finger in my ass one night when he was really drunk. I loved it but was too embarrassed to bring it up, so 10 years passed and then I went in pursuit of my own pleasure and we started having more open and honest conversations about our sex life. It was then that I told him I wanted to try more anal play. He was curious and kind and just said, “okay.” And he followed my lead.

We’re not AO. I would love to be, but my husband loves vaginal and won’t let it go completely, which I’m fine with. We still do anal a couple of times a week and we make love about five times a week so I’m satisfied.

[sharedbuttslut]

I received enema punishments as a girl. My parents were backwards in a lot of ways but I got very used to things in my ass pretty early. Fingers to put lube in my ass for the nozzle and then the nozzle itself. When I started dating in school my ass was my first used hole because I was scared of being used in my pussy. I'd say over time my pussy got used more until I went AO after the discussion with my husband. I just wish I had to ability to cum from being used in my ass. It's mostly just me enjoying the feeling of things in my ass, the feeling of excitement from having a man using my body to find release in an especially intimate way, plus the dirty embarrassing shameful feelings I've had since I was young on top of eventually enjoying the enemas or fingers that never went away. And every time I hook up with a new partner those feelings flare up for me.

I had a period of time right before my husband where I was really kinda using my pussy to cure depression. Lots of random drunken hook ups, lots of masturbating. My orgasms and the feeling of being full between my legs kept me happy. Then I met my husband. Originally he was just going to be another hook up. But... I fell in love. The first time we had sex he used my ass and mouth only. I should have known then! He used me all ways but it became apparent anal was his favorite. He really got me used to a loving D/s relationship where he helped me try to control my need to cum for happiness by mostly focusing on my asshole. I was being shared with guys who used my pussy which started as a way for me to kind of put the stuff we were trying to use to dissuade me from needing sex to feel happy into practice. My husband eventually stopped using or touching my pussy, eventually leading to my pussy being unsexualized after we had a serious talk about having kids. Then I was anal only.