Backdoorlover wrote: ↑Tue Feb 13, 2024 3:49 am
‘@Rimmer, I get that you and your wife are very into that pussy ruining mode. But did you notice no one is following your lead ? Yet you claim that more people should do this ?
I too like looking at an empty pussy while fucking the ass, but in the case of a stretcher, you can look into the pussy not just at the pussy as you fuck the ass hole, you can also put your hand in and feel your cock through the virginal wall.
There are plenty of people into stretching, like AO though it's a bit taboo and niche and yes, it dos seem that I am very much in the minority on this forum; as you say - each to their own.
@ChrisW Sorry if I took a divergence, but I did mention my ideas why the proliferation of AO and Anal may be hindered. Though the majority do love piv, there are some, people on the stretching forum who do only or mainly have anal, some don't even have piv (some are in chastity cages!) but have not experimented with Anal yet and some who are thinking of giving up piv for Anal, not every one, but some are. Some have not even heard of AO. I had not, when we went AO we had not heard the term, we just decided to only use her ass for sex, we found this forum and the term AO at a later date. When ever I notice someone talk about not using the pussy or thinking of switching to anal, on the stretching forums or elsewhere, I often suggest they take a look here - to help raise the awareness of Anal. Some women into stretching, not all but some, will not allow their partners cock in their pussy, like some here do clit denial and that sort of thing, some do cock denial, for want of a better word and again I sometimes suggest they try anal. And, though people here are not into it, it seems, if a woman wants to stretch her pussy to the point of only a huge dildo can satisfy it, or a Dom instructs his sub that her pussy is to be ruined and useless for piv, it is really a perfect setting to become AO - It seems very different to the rhetoric often heard here of a sweet, unused resting pussy, but really shouldn't we be welcoming and encouraging these people if they are thinking of trying Anal or turning AO? We should be partnering with this rather than considering it something that may scare people away. It has been said that "no one is following your lead," true, but as the thread is about raising Anal and AO awareness - Doesn't that statement just show that the stretching kink is an untapped source of potential anal converts? As was said, I and
@Backdoorlover like watching an empty pussy as the ass is fucked, but some people here do the opposite, they cover the pussy and don't want to look at it. There are men here into that and there are women here into it, it's the opposite of what Backdoorlover and I like to see - so isn't a woman or a man into pussy stretching and seeing a ruined gaping pussy at rest, just the flip side of the coin to those that like to view a tight unused pussy at rest as the ass is fucked? I got into pussy stretching, because we had gone AO; there are stretchers though, who are looking into Anal, because they got into stretching. Pussy covering, pussy denial, clit denial, pussy punishing, pussy spanking, pussy locking, pussy stretching, all these things could be said to scare people away from Anal and anal awareness. It could be said that including and associating gay, Bi and whatever else with the Anal-centric and AO lifestyle could scare straight people off, but there is an obvious overlap between the love of Anal sex and homosexual lovemaking, people could say we are halfway to being gay - just saying what people 'could' say; and this could scare some off. So there is an obvious overlap, in some cases, with pussy stretching, it could indeed scare some people off, just like all the above mentioned associations with anal sex. And yes, I do notice that no one follows my lead in this, I notice the tumbleweed when I have mentioned pussy stretching in the past, so I try not to mostly, just ever now and then something pricks my ears. It has also been lamented several times about how quiet this forum is and how it is only as lively as the posters on it. Well I guess if people don't positively, encouragingly engage with posters overlap interests, then the topics become limited and people from other forums, into other sex acts, who have had their awareness of Anal sex raised, pop over to take a look, see some bias against, or lack of interest to their overlap kink (for want of a better word) and quietly head off somewhere else, when they could have been encouraged and shown how anal could cross over and be introduced into their life and sexual activity. Anyway, just saying. See you over on a thread about what type of sticky tape is best for long term pussy covering.
). Think the forum needs to get the merch sorted: cups, T-shirts, hats, we can all get tattooed - Lets get this baby rolling! 