How long is too long?

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AusDeviant
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How long is too long?

Post by AusDeviant » Fri Apr 19, 2024 4:55 pm

Hello

My wife and I have been getting more and more into anal sex. She's showing a lot of interest in deep penetration with long dildos.

We watched a porn video last night to get inspiration and one we stumbled on was the Slink toy being used up to its full length for a young lady who was enjoying it immensely.

My wife was turned on by this. Our only hesitation is 'what don't we know'?

So I thought to ask here - what do we need to know to perform such a long / deep penetration? Outside of the obvious gentle stretching etc to allow her to take it.

TYIA

Colt1911
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by Colt1911 » Sat Apr 20, 2024 6:13 am

@AusDeviant below is a link to a diagram of the rectum and sigmoid colon. The average rectum is about 5” or 12 cm in length. The slink goes beyond the rectum and into the sigmoid colon after making a sharp turn to get there.

We’re also interested in deep play but I haven’t yet bought a slink. Inserted properly and gently, the slink will make the sharp turn. My wife and I enjoy deep anal penetration but my cock is not long enough to make the bend and enter her sigmoid. I am able to “bottom out” at the bend which turns her on. We have much longer glass and silicone dildos that are too thick and stiff to make the bend, but really turn her on when they bottom out as well.

With deep play that goes into the sigmoid you may encounter feces. A typical douche before anal really only cleans the rectum leaving whatever remains in the sigmoid. When playing in the dirt box we expect to encounter some dirt from time to time, but others should be aware a much more clean out may be required if you want to avoid some poop.

My wife cums when I penetrate her ass deeply or when I bottom out a toy in her ass. My guess is it will feel amazing to have a slink make it past the sigmoid bend into her lower colon. We’ve watched the videos and it looks like the women enjoy the experience. Let me know how this works for you. You’ve motivated me to order one today after our Saturday session of anal.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/b ... m-function

Colt1911
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by Colt1911 » Sat Apr 20, 2024 6:30 am

@AusDeviant i found this excellent article on depth play with slinks and other depth play toys. Please give us feedback on your experience if we don’t get there first!

https://sexualalpha.com/anal-depth-training/

AusDeviant
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by AusDeviant » Sun Apr 21, 2024 3:33 pm

Colt1911 wrote:
Sat Apr 20, 2024 6:13 am
@AusDeviant below is a link to a diagram of the rectum and sigmoid colon. The average rectum is about 5” or 12 cm in length. The slink goes beyond the rectum and into the sigmoid colon after making a sharp turn to get there.

We’re also interested in deep play but I haven’t yet bought a slink. Inserted properly and gently, the slink will make the sharp turn. My wife and I enjoy deep anal penetration but my cock is not long enough to make the bend and enter her sigmoid. I am able to “bottom out” at the bend which turns her on. We have much longer glass and silicone dildos that are too thick and stiff to make the bend, but really turn her on when they bottom out as well.

With deep play that goes into the sigmoid you may encounter feces. A typical douche before anal really only cleans the rectum leaving whatever remains in the sigmoid. When playing in the dirt box we expect to encounter some dirt from time to time, but others should be aware a much more clean out may be required if you want to avoid some poop.

My wife cums when I penetrate her ass deeply or when I bottom out a toy in her ass. My guess is it will feel amazing to have a slink make it past the sigmoid bend into her lower colon. We’ve watched the videos and it looks like the women enjoy the experience. Let me know how this works for you. You’ve motivated me to order one today after our Saturday session of anal.

https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/b ... m-function

This and your other post are really helpful - thanks mate!!

TelJ2003
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by TelJ2003 » Sat Apr 27, 2024 12:53 pm

My friend is 9" long. He has gone balls deep on me and it felt incredible however soon became uncomfortable so it was a relief when he withdrew! Of course I demanded that he continue to fuck my ass!!

AbbiTur05
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by AbbiTur05 » Mon Apr 29, 2024 2:10 pm

Ha ha my pussy limits size, my ass will happily take bigger. 9" is a good size for my ass, my pussy would struggle with a hunk of meat that big, hence why AO is best!

Metal266
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Re: How long is too long?

Post by Metal266 » Mon Apr 29, 2024 8:45 pm

Did you try long narrow flexible toy like snake dildo?

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