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For as long as I can remember, I've had an attraction to anal porn and anal sex and found it more appealing than vaginal. I just think buttholes are prettier and anal sex is more primal and natural and feels so much better than vaginal.

Despite that attraction, I hadn't considered the idea of going anal only until I came across the original Anal Only blog and realized there were actually couples out there who only had anal sex and no vaginal and loved it. This was the hottest thing ever to me, and I was immediately hooked. But until the past couple years, information and resources on the subject have been fairly slim, which is why I started this site and its tumblr counterpart to let all the anal only fans get together and realize they're not alone and there's nothing wrong with their preference.

Well, I love having anal sex. I've been AO for about 6 months now and I'm loving it. I got interested on tumblr. I saw so many anal gifs and I thought "wow. that looks so fucking good. i wish i could stick a big ass dick in my ass right now" and that's what I did. I started fucking my asshole with my dildo instead of my pussy and I couldn't stop.the pleasure is unbelievable. i kept wanting more and more and more. Soon, I was sticking both my vibrator and dildo in my ass. My friend owns one of those fucking machines that penetrate deep inside you. She gave me keys to her place since she's barely home and everyday i went there to get my ass fucked. The machine just goes in so deep and the feeling is delicious. My pussy twitches sometimes and throbs. It got so horny once that I had to fuck 3 men for it to get enough pleasure. I found that it just feels more intense in the ass and anal is fucking best. I hAve to admit though. Sometimes ill shamelessly stick both my vibrator and dildo in my ass and atempt to fill my pussy with cucumbers i have in the fridge

I thought this was a place for talking seriously.

In my teenage years I read much erotic fiction, which was full of depictions of anal sex, usually for outnumbering the vaginal encounters.

This interested my greatly, and even though I had yet to experience sex at all I knew right away that anal sex was for me. It always had a real excitement to it, the way it was described seemed so vivid, the characters more greatly prized and desired to have anal sex. Of course, all that was fiction. But I realised it connected with me, because there was something more profound in all of this. It reflected the many authors desires also, and I concluded that most other men also nurtured a similar desire for anal sex.

In later years, after many unhappy vaginal sexual encounters I decided that for my own well being I had to have anal sex, and often. Though once it becomes routine you naturally want it all the time. But that is another story.

It frustrates me that my fiance loves when I fuck her in the ass... She cums way harder... But makes it a fucking task to get anal..... What advice can I get to convince her anal only when clearly she loves it....

Blizzak, why does she make it a task if she clearly loves it? Why is she saying she is opposed to AO? Give us more to work with.

I guess due to popular belief it shouldn't be the only thing you do.... Its a struggle for me.... I don't get why she won't just do AO BC my lord she can't control her self when we do it

Blizzak, it is the mindset. It is hard to let go of the concept that sex means penis in vagina. And also it has been reinforced time and again by society that somehow that there is something a little shameful about enjoying anal

Your fiancé, though she enjoys anal sex with you, no doubt worries that she'll look bad having anal every time.

It is difficult to overcome, for sure. My advice is to make sure she knows how much it means to you and to make sure that you don't neglect her needs and make the whole experience as loving and special as possible, so that in time she can disassociate the negative feelings she may have.

Thanks we talked an its gonna progress but not change over night. Love this blog. Also can I upload video of me having anal an giving her a cream pie?? For your enjoyment

blizzak wrote:Thanks we talked an its gonna progress but not change over night. Love this blog. Also can I upload video of me having anal an giving her a cream pie?? For your enjoyment

Blizzak,

If there is not a way to upload the video here, you could upload it to any number if websites, like xhamster and link to it here. You can probably even insert it into your post rather than just link to it. Most of the sites like that have a section that says something like, share or embed and has the code to insert. You'll have to check with the site admin or a moderator.

As far as getting your fiancé to go AO, a good idea is to try and get her to agree to AO for a month, either for a special occasion (like your birthday), or because you buy her something she really wants. You have a huge advantage over many, as she already enjoys anal sex when she allows herself to have it. Depending on her personality, she may even respond to being challenged to do it. After the month was over, every couple I've recommend this to ended up continuing to have anal sex virtually every time they had sex. A few even went AO directly after the month was up.

What you do is get her to agree to only have anal sex (no penile/vaginal sex whatsoever) for that month. She can use your tongue, fingers, or a toy in her vagina however, either before or during anal sex. Let her know she can have as much time as she needs between to recover. Her recovery time will become shorter each time, as she begins to learn how to relax and control her muscles.

The following is from an email I sent someone recently about this process:

Once you've got her to agree to anal sex, the most important thing is the positive reinforcement. After that, it's her ability or orgasm during anal sex (even if it's due to external clitoral stimulation). So, the two most important requirements to continued anal sex are positive reinforcement and her ability to orgasm with you in her ass. If she feels more loved and accepted when having anal sex than she does during vaginal sex, she will prefer anal. Once she gives into it, she won't just prefer anal, she'll want anal, she'll beg for anal. Then her vagina will just be relegated to it's purpose, procreation. Her pleasure will be derived from anal alone. It takes time, but it can and will happen if it's done properly.

After the month is up, if she wants to regress to vaginal sex for a while, let her. However, you really need to try and get her to agree to anal sex at least once a week, or to start with vaginal and finish anally. It's important her muscles stay stretched, or anal sex will be difficult for her. The other reason is that, in order for her body to get used to your semen, your cum needs to be in her ass as much as possible. That said, when she doesn't get the kind of positive feedback during vaginal sex that she's been receiving from anal sex, she will want to return to anal sex.

I've talked to about 40 couples (well usually the male) where the woman was willing to try having only anal sex for a month. Those who couldn't do it (I'm convinced) did not take things slow enough or apply the information I've given you. A number of them regressed after the month was over. However, in all but a couple of these cases, the woman wanted to return to anal sex. Sometimes, the couples would start with vaginal sex and move to anal. In some cases the women showed a strong preference to anal sex, but still wanted to have vaginal sex occasionally. This is okay, as they eventually gravitate more and more toward anal sex if you just seem like you're along for the ride during vaginal. Eventually, in almost all cases, they forewent vaginal sex altogether for anal. If you asked the woman in these cases, she would tell you she wants anal every bit as much as the man does.

Good luck! Keep us updated.