Turn about
Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2014 3:49 am
Anybody else here like to both give and receive in an AO relationship?
From the earliest days of my sexual awareness I've wanted to have 'gender-free' sex where either partner could play either role at any time, probably as a reaction against the very conservative farming community I grew up in. At first I puzzled over how this could be done, anal sex was unheard of in that place and age!
To skip over a decade or two of various discoveries I eventually found my ideal with a partner who was not only happy to go AO but to strap on her cock - or even show up with it in place - and take her turn. That was a very intense relationship!
More recently I have an occasional FWB with whom I have an AO relationship where she's always the one doing the penetrating, and perfectly happy about the arrangement. Which, I hasten to say, is not due to any physical limitations on my part <wink>!
In both cases there is no hint of sub/dom dynamic or of any predetermined gender roles, we're just a couple of people enjoying each other. As others have mentioned, this leads to a very intense relationship of great mutual respect.
The common thread with experiences others have reported here is that vaginal sex is simply not on the menu. There's an additional reason for that in 'genderless' sex - it's much more feasible for a female-bodied person to take on male characteristics than vice versa!
From the earliest days of my sexual awareness I've wanted to have 'gender-free' sex where either partner could play either role at any time, probably as a reaction against the very conservative farming community I grew up in. At first I puzzled over how this could be done, anal sex was unheard of in that place and age!
To skip over a decade or two of various discoveries I eventually found my ideal with a partner who was not only happy to go AO but to strap on her cock - or even show up with it in place - and take her turn. That was a very intense relationship!
More recently I have an occasional FWB with whom I have an AO relationship where she's always the one doing the penetrating, and perfectly happy about the arrangement. Which, I hasten to say, is not due to any physical limitations on my part <wink>!
In both cases there is no hint of sub/dom dynamic or of any predetermined gender roles, we're just a couple of people enjoying each other. As others have mentioned, this leads to a very intense relationship of great mutual respect.
The common thread with experiences others have reported here is that vaginal sex is simply not on the menu. There's an additional reason for that in 'genderless' sex - it's much more feasible for a female-bodied person to take on male characteristics than vice versa!