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I'm curious what guys and gals think of an anal gape.

For guys, does it turn you on? Do you see it as a good or bad thing? Would you want to give a girl a gape over time? How would you react if you discovered your gf already had a good-sized gape?

For gals, what do you think of a gape? Does having one make you feel better, worse or neutral about yourself? Do you see it as a selling point when looking for a bf? Would you be complimentary or critical of a friend with a large gape?

Yes it does turn me on, at least in the porn I've seen. I've tried with my gf but when I pull out she only hangs open just a little before closing up again. How do they make it happen?

Robert wrote:Yes it does turn me on, at least in the porn I've seen. I've tried with my gf but when I pull out she only hangs open just a little before closing up again. How do they make it happen?

It turns me on, too, in a similar way as red lipstick or high heels. I think a gape comes from stretching with increasingly large objects and hitting the hole in different positions. A big gape would be a fun goal for a couple to work on together.

Most women just don't gape except right after anal. Unless you're using huge (larger than the average penis) dildos and butt plugs all the time, your ass is going to tighten up again pretty quickly.

I do find gapes very appealing, however, especially after sex in a sort of "I did this" way, but there's something about a woman being able to gape at will, too.

I think an anal gape looks really hot, but my wife has never gotten one like you see in porn -- even with a pretty large plug in for hours.

Since gaping is so common in porn, my guess is that the female actors maintain the gape by pushing out (bearing down like they're pooping), making the sphincter relax. The prep for these movies includes taking enemas until they're squeaky clean so they can bear down all they want.

There are also some rare performers who take very large things in their ass, and I would guess their anuses (anii?) are just permanently loose. Several of the women at http://dirtygardengirl.com/ can for example fist themselves with seemingly no prep, and do two fists or even larger. These are the Olympic athletes of anal accommodation. It's really quite remarkable to see how much of a size range the anus can accommodate.

Neither for it nor against it.

Ever tongued a gape before? Deepest analingus possible.

My gf gapes a little. She never used to but it is alright and she tightens up as she was before after sex. Never does it like they do in porn though, but its nice all the same just a little open and pink and wet.

I like to see anal gaping in porn. And I'm excited to discuss with a friend of mine capable of huge gapings...
However I don't know if it will really turn me on in real life.

What I have found really sexy was a video where a woman was capable to gape without anybody touching her ass. She was able to open it wide on demand

There is nothing more beautiful than staring down a gaping asshole. Love rimming a gaping butthole.

I'm the opposite - I like an Asshole to quickly close up nice and tight!

It shows how different it is to a pussy and expresses so eloquently the tight grip it has over us!

Also, a nicely clenched butthole looks so damn cute!