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My Anal sessions have always been very slow and tender - I do like it that way but at the same time miss the lustful abandon I can have when pounding away at a pussy like a jackhammer!

Porn almost always depicts Anal being done in an very rough manner, which never ceases to amaze me as I've never met a girl who could take it so hard and fast!

Is this just another porn fantasy, or does it really happen in the real world?

Do any of y'all have hard Anal sex on a regular basis, and do you find it more pleasurable than just going gently? Does it cause any pain or problems during or afterwards?

Do women crave hard Anal once they have gotten used to it, or would they prefer guys always take it slow?

Once in a while my wife has said "go as fast as you like". And I have. But not for very long. It is kind of intoxicating but I suspect she's offering that for my benefit, or getting a thrill that isn't necessarily from the physical stimulation.

But really, it is more satisfying and enjoyable to take your time, and make it last for you both.

We always start softly and again always end up with deep and hard fucking. My wife says it's best for her that way because she orgasms harder! Don't get me wrong, i like it too, but she can go like this only for 20 min untill her ass gets uncomfortable. If we do it slower she can go for about one hour.

My girlfriend and I have anal sex on the regular. We totally skip vaginal. My girlfriend doesn't miss it at all. We always start out with lots of ass play. I usually eat her ass for 10 minutes then stretch it open with my fingers and medium sized butt plug. When she's nice and loose she pushes the plug out and Immediately insert my cock into her pre-stretched asshole. We always start anal missionary. After she cums in 2 minutes I can then begin to absolutely pound away at her ass. I can pull out and reveal a beautiful gape at which she pulls her asshole open for me. I can then pretty !much come and go as I please in her ass in every which way. I can fuck her ass hardest reverse cowgirl. She screams in pleasure as I thrust ever so roughly into her ass. Then when I tire she bounces on my cock real hard to make me cum in her gaped asshole. It usually lasts 20 to 45 minutes. All anal all the time.

When I get anal. Not very often for some reason right now she is being difficult. She like all start slow then a few minutes in she wants it hard. Only issue is I get so excited I do not last as long as I would like

I love both slow and deep and hard and fast. Or hard and deep. Punishment thrusts are amazing.

Mostly we go slow but now and then my gf wants it harder and i can bang her ass really hard. Usually thats after we been going a while and she feels more open and receptive. It is awesome to do but i can't last long like that. Its a those times you can see that its just a myth about the anus not being designed for sex and is just if not more capable than her vagina.

When her ass is OK, we use it just the same way as we use her pussy, the only difference is that we start out slow in her ass - after a couple of minutes, it is the same.

We don't (yet!) because I want her interested in anal only and I'd like to avoid anything with potentially negative consequences. But I've seen enough porn where the girl takes it hard but is obviously not the slightest bit bothered about it. So I know it is doable.

Took us a few months to build up to having pounding hard anal, but now its hard all the time - either with the two of us, or with toys.