Anyway, it can't have been two weeks later that she stopped by my dorm room from the library merely to wish me good-night, with no intention (or preparation) for spending the night. But, as Seinfeld would put it, yada yada yada, we were in bed together, desperate for sex. Thanks to the grace of providence she had left a bottle of baby oil in my room after a previous overnight stay, so the gates of a more enduring Eden were opened accordingly.
For the rest of that year we continued to have extraordinary sex, including anal nearly every night, and no shortage of encounters that were anal only, yet very orgasmic for both of us. I don't know quite what happened in the next school year, but our pace and our curiosity diminished considerably; I think maybe it was my own adolescent misgivings that we needed to engage in "normal" sex and so the deadly routine of a single nightly missionary fuck became the reigning convention, to our mutual yet unspoken disappointment. In our final year together we returned to at least an incremental level of variety, but by then the damage had been done for both of us and we broke up before the end of the year. I recall--perhaps wishfully--that our final roll in the hay occurred, however, the day she told me she had been accepted to the grad school of her choice: without saying anything I undressed her and we had very, very fine sex, including a welcome, orgasmic return to her ass.
About five years ago or so we renewed our friendship, Platonically but very affectionately: for about a decade after our break-up she was apparently involved in a radically polyamorous lifestyle, though with a strong lesbian inflection. At the end of it all, however, she wound up converting to Islam! She is now a cancer survivor with a wonderful daughter, a hijab, and from all available evidence an apparently celibate marriage. As discreetly as we can, we allude once in a while to the passion and intensity of the relationship we had shared. What can I say except that nobody can be wise and in love at the same time?
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salpecam wrote:My first penetrative sex was at age 20, and it was anal; the lady wouldn't let me into her vagina until we have been dating for months, but we had anal on the first date. She told me that this was utterly normal in her culture
Which culture is this?
singleinDC wrote:salpecam wrote:My first penetrative sex was at age 20, and it was anal; the lady wouldn't let me into her vagina until we have been dating for months, but we had anal on the first date. She told me that this was utterly normal in her culture
Which culture is this?
Her name was Zebirissa, or Zeba. She was half Ugandan African, half Gujurati Indian. I am British; we met in Leeds where I was a student at the time.
She was extremely sexually active. We had penetrative sex on the first date; it was necessary to reveal to her that it was my first time. I was 20. I therefore didn't fully understand at the time the rarity of ladies who are really enthusiastic about being penetrated anally.
She insisted that I was not allowed into her cunt until "later". It turned out that this meant the 5th date. We saw each other on and off for about 5 years, and in all that time I probably only went up her cunt about 15 or 20 times, but I rode her anus almost every single day (or night) we were together.
Later, i had gathered that so much anal was unusual, according to all the other chaps I knew. So I asked her why she was so into it.
Zeba told me that this was normal for her, where she grew up, and on bother sides of her family. Vaginal sex is for married only, so girls would have their bfs bugger them until the wedding night. Similarly, recreational sex would be about her mouth or anus and the cunt is for couples who are planning a baby.
Her influence on me was very strong, a powerful imprinting. I would happily fuck anally only for the rest of my life; finding a suitable lady has been difficult, and has involved a few more visits to west, central and southern africa!
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