Age When You First Had Anal?

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by zarafan » Wed Dec 23, 2015 12:30 pm

I was 19, as was my first "real" girlfriend: we hooked up at a party and had the kind of mad, extravagant, inexhaustible sex that 19-year olds are capable of--I think our first night together I must have cum half a dozen times?!--that makes the sex I have every subsequent year a paler and fainter imitation, a shadow cast on the cave by the diminishing light of recollection.

Anyway, it can't have been two weeks later that she stopped by my dorm room from the library merely to wish me good-night, with no intention (or preparation) for spending the night. But, as Seinfeld would put it, yada yada yada, we were in bed together, desperate for sex. Thanks to the grace of providence she had left a bottle of baby oil in my room after a previous overnight stay, so the gates of a more enduring Eden were opened accordingly.

For the rest of that year we continued to have extraordinary sex, including anal nearly every night, and no shortage of encounters that were anal only, yet very orgasmic for both of us. I don't know quite what happened in the next school year, but our pace and our curiosity diminished considerably; I think maybe it was my own adolescent misgivings that we needed to engage in "normal" sex and so the deadly routine of a single nightly missionary fuck became the reigning convention, to our mutual yet unspoken disappointment. In our final year together we returned to at least an incremental level of variety, but by then the damage had been done for both of us and we broke up before the end of the year. I recall--perhaps wishfully--that our final roll in the hay occurred, however, the day she told me she had been accepted to the grad school of her choice: without saying anything I undressed her and we had very, very fine sex, including a welcome, orgasmic return to her ass.

About five years ago or so we renewed our friendship, Platonically but very affectionately: for about a decade after our break-up she was apparently involved in a radically polyamorous lifestyle, though with a strong lesbian inflection. At the end of it all, however, she wound up converting to Islam! She is now a cancer survivor with a wonderful daughter, a hijab, and from all available evidence an apparently celibate marriage. As discreetly as we can, we allude once in a while to the passion and intensity of the relationship we had shared. What can I say except that nobody can be wise and in love at the same time?

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by singleinDC » Mon Dec 28, 2015 3:55 pm

salpecam wrote:My first penetrative sex was at age 20, and it was anal; the lady wouldn't let me into her vagina until we have been dating for months, but we had anal on the first date. She told me that this was utterly normal in her culture

Which culture is this? :)

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by salpecam » Tue Dec 29, 2015 10:09 am

singleinDC wrote:
salpecam wrote:My first penetrative sex was at age 20, and it was anal; the lady wouldn't let me into her vagina until we have been dating for months, but we had anal on the first date. She told me that this was utterly normal in her culture

Which culture is this? :)

Her name was Zebirissa, or Zeba. She was half Ugandan African, half Gujurati Indian. I am British; we met in Leeds where I was a student at the time.

She was extremely sexually active. We had penetrative sex on the first date; it was necessary to reveal to her that it was my first time. I was 20. I therefore didn't fully understand at the time the rarity of ladies who are really enthusiastic about being penetrated anally.

She insisted that I was not allowed into her cunt until "later". It turned out that this meant the 5th date. We saw each other on and off for about 5 years, and in all that time I probably only went up her cunt about 15 or 20 times, but I rode her anus almost every single day (or night) we were together.

Later, i had gathered that so much anal was unusual, according to all the other chaps I knew. So I asked her why she was so into it.

Zeba told me that this was normal for her, where she grew up, and on bother sides of her family. Vaginal sex is for married only, so girls would have their bfs bugger them until the wedding night. Similarly, recreational sex would be about her mouth or anus and the cunt is for couples who are planning a baby.

Her influence on me was very strong, a powerful imprinting. I would happily fuck anally only for the rest of my life; finding a suitable lady has been difficult, and has involved a few more visits to west, central and southern africa!

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by analsexonly » Mon Mar 07, 2016 9:46 am

That's quite interesting to hear about cultures that treat recreational sex the same as I do: mouth and ass for fun, pussy for reproduction only. I wonder if this developed simply as a natural contraceptive, or if there's more involved?

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by MissChief » Wed Mar 09, 2016 7:21 pm

I was 11 the first time. It was with my brother's friend, who was probably 16 or 17 at the time. All we ever did was anal and oral (with some ass to mouth). We did it pretty regularly but stopped doing it when he got a girlfriend his own age. To my mind it wasn't abuse, since I was very sexually aware at that age thanks to the internet and I more or less instigated the relationship.

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Post by blagfish » Wed Jul 06, 2016 2:24 pm

I was 19 when I lost my virginity. I was very religious. I had anal the first time when I was 22. That was it for me, but the first time I saw anal I knew it was my preference. I found a hard core mag with anal sex when I was 10 years old. Imagine my surprise when I finally did start having sex how few women wanted to try it.

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by dirtyoldlady » Sun Jul 10, 2016 12:23 pm

14, almost 15. You know how the danger of getting caught in the act always seems to heighten any sexual experience? We were in his basement bedroom and his parents were home. He didn't have a condom handy and I wasn't on the pill yet...

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by Amy1234 » Sun Jul 10, 2016 1:16 pm

I was 18,, I wanted to wait to have sex till marriage ( always did hand jobs, blow jobs for my bf's through hi school, ) . Into my second long term relationship i wanted to be more for my guy so I suggested we try it, as he is older and more experienced he made it great !! Now we have had a awesome AO sex life for about 7 or 8 months, We do it almost every night and my guy says he is proud to be with me and how sexually happy he is :)
Amy's a good girl :twisted:

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by anal_nympho_F » Thu Jul 28, 2016 5:31 pm

I began masturbating anally when I was around 11, but I didn't have anal sex with a boy until I was 14.

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Re: Age When You First Had Anal?

Post by kilrkty » Thu Jul 28, 2016 7:38 pm

I was 16 and saw some gay ads at the back of a porno mag. A small pic of a blond guy on his knees sucking a man. That pic took my breath away! What a beautiful cock... , hands on ass. Wow! I went to a gay bar and met an older( mid twenties lol!) fellow and he was so good! Made anal so pleasurable & fun. His name was Dean and I'll never forget him...

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