cornhole wrote:i have been thinking about this alot lately. when i was younger i think that my attraction to anal was both the visual aspect mixed with a bit of the taboo thing and a feeling of domination. in those days it was always with buns up kneeling. and what's not hot about that? but that was over twenty years ago. now that i'm doing my wife's sweet, sweet ass i find a whole new thing going on. we started out and have continued to do it spooning. in that way, i can't even see her "like button". it's just all feelings. and nothing has ever felt so, so good. man. just got more last night and i'm still in "playback mode".
as i explained in an earlier post, the feeling of anal on my cock has changed so maybe the question you ask is answered differently over time.
as to the other question....: If Anal was the norm, would we all be craving Pussy?
don't know. some would crave pussy because of all those reasons you and i both mentioned but i have a feeling that more people would be rather satisfied with a world of anal first. maybe it would be just that. an inverted world where it would be anal first and throw in some pussy to round out a sexual life instead of what is there now.
Well crafter response, Cornhole. I relate very much to your experience. Although, in the intervening years between the ass-up and spooning, there was long period of vigorous cowgirl. I did enjoy the ability to lean forward and kiss her, fondle and suck her tits, and see her empty pussy.
Like you, I often find myself thinking of our anal lovemaking the night before while driving to work, or just daydreaming a bit.
I think that, if anal first were the norm, I think most couples would then find vaginal disappointing and save it for procreation.
That said, even after 24 years of anal sex, I'm still amazed I get to have anal sex with my wife every time we make love.
Anal Craving Is Psychological Or Physical ??
