theanon1212 wrote:I may just wait a while before trying anything new. We've only been doing the anal only thing for a few months and I'm still getting used to the whole thing, the frequency, the differences and the demands of my boyfriend with a higher sex drive than I have. It's enough to be going with for now.
But what is the deal with you guys about this? Is it really that important to you about the depth thing, or is it just the feeling?
If we are referring to the positions that allow this to take place, the advantage to you
is that is makes penetration easier and more comfortable. It naturally spreads your ass cheeks, pushes your rectal vales toward your anus, and aligns your colon. As well, many women find semen in the rectum to be uncomfortable for many different reasons, the primary one being that having something in your rectum makes you feel the need to go to the bathroom. When that something is liquid (semen), it may make you feel as though you have diarrhea. However, if he ejaculates beyond your rectal valves, your rectal valves then close and his semen stays in your colon until your next bowel movement.
For him, your rectal valves have the ability to provide incredible stimulation to his penis. Although your anus is tight, your rectum is almost cavernous compared to the vagina. Entering your rectal valves and colon feels similar to a vagina, only tighter and softer. Not only that, but your rectal valves have the ability to move in ways a vagina can't compare to. If your guy loves anal sex now, you'll blow his mind when he's able to penetrate your rectal valves. I would image more than his mind will blow...