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analsexonly wrote:That's interesting—I don't really see ass to mouth as something cheap or dirty or demeaning at all, though certainly some porn can treat it that way (but certain porn can make any sex act seem that way, it all depends on how it portrays it). To me, ass to mouth is not at all something demeaning, but rather a sort of complete acceptance of one another. Another way to further the intimacy. That's a big part of why I love it, anyway.

It's just that my husband has both girth and length (nothing obscene, just above average) and the few times we've encountered a less than completely clean experience, it's been because he's gone deep (with my encouragement of course) and I'm just not shaking that image, even years later. I agree on the potential for intimacy but at the end of the day, how it's been presented and gone mainstream courtesy of porn, it's frequently treated as a submissive and often degrading (to the woman) act. I know that doesn't mean it has to transcend into private lives but if we're being honest, it does. Look at what the crap that was 50 Shades did for BDSM as exhibit one.

I don't feel demeaned by it by any stroke, I enjoy it because it's taboo and I enjoy it because of how comfortable and connected you both have to be to do it, I can't really say why it makes me feel off, it's the only aspect of my AO journey I've not really dealt with yet I think.

analsexonly wrote:...I don't really see ass to mouth as something cheap or dirty or demeaning at all... To me, ass to mouth is not at all something demeaning, but rather a sort of complete acceptance of one another. Another way to further the intimacy.

That's the perfect way to sum it up. For years I never broached the subject, as I thought she would be grossed out and turn it down flat. When I finally got up the nerve to ask she agreed without hesitation. Then, when she first performed the act, I was blown away when I pulled out of her ass and she just went down on me without hesitation. Within a month and a half of the first time we tried ATM she began doing it on a regular basis, without my asking. It was then that I realized the naughty factor was what turned her on, very much like anal itself in the beginning. Although I rarely finish in her mouth, it's rare that we don't alternate back and forth several times during sex.

Her willingness to try ass to mouth just made me feel that much more loved and increased our intimacy. This is very different then how many who haven't experienced it would perceive it.

In her ass, on her face, or in her mouth with ATM. They're all equal to me.

Agree ATM can be amazingly intimate when you're both on the same page. Especially when you throw a bit of cream play in the mix. Having said that, My GF prefers that I cum in her ass, which I prefer as well. Loves to leave it in her ass for the next round as well which is crazy hot.

Kinghut, I prefer it inside me too, something about knowing it's there that satisfies me

If I've had sex in the morning instead of showering and cleaning up I'll sometimes put a plug in to keep it inside me too

Hubby cums in my butt 99% of the time during anal. I've had guys pull out and cum on my face or body in the past and have gone ass to mouth a few times too. As for me, I usually cum on the sheets beneath me or on my tummy, depending on position, LOL! (I'm transgender)

GinaValentine wrote:Hubby cums in my butt 99% of the time during anal. I've had guys pull out and cum on my face or body in the past and have gone ass to mouth a few times too. As for me, I usually cum on the sheets beneath me or on my tummy, depending on position, LOL! (I'm transgender)

That sound amazing!!

In the ass 99,9% of the times of course... Nothing feels better than cum in girls ass hole and don´t need to think about birth control eather

Pussyhater wrote:In the ass 99,9% of the times of course... Nothing feels better than cum in girls ass hole and don´t need to think about birth control eather

It's the gift that keeps on giving