Why do you prefer anal sex?

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by Pussyhater » Tue Sep 13, 2016 1:05 am

The short answer would be that pussy sucks and really doesn't do anything for me, but to go little bit more into details about me and about my obsession of women buttholes I'd say that everything began already when I was about 9 - 10 years old...

So I was in third or fourth grade when I started secretly watching my fathers porn videos with my friends and sometimes alone and even I didn't masturbate at that age I really enjoyed watching the movies but when the time passed by I started to loose my interest in porn except in lesbian stuff and of course the anal scenes witch were very rear at the porn movies in the 80s.

I was 14 years old when I first time had sex and even never had sex yet I didn't have any high expectations about vaginal sex and I was prepared for it but still the disappointment when first time I put my dick inside pussy was a shock that I until this day haven't forgotten or even forgiven. I really didn't feel just about anything and must admit that my first girl wasn't even the most attractive one but still she was the school slut and definitely not a first timer even she was same age with me and made me also suck and lick her disgusting and smelly cunt witch was another horrifying experience for me... On the way home just wanted to scream that what fuck is wrong in us men who are spending most of our waking hours thinking about how to get pussy!

After the first experience had to disappoint one more time with one more girl but thank god not so ugly one but third time was the charm think maybe one week before my 15th birthday. The girl was one year older than me but it was first time for both of us to have anal sex and we had no idea how to do it right, no lube no spit no nothing, not even cleaned butthole so it was quite painful experience for her and messy for both of us... Anyway the small taste of anal was still 100 times better than all my experiences before it, so It was even more clear for me than before what's my thing.

In young age still it was very difficult to find girls that are willing to do anal and impossible to find girls who are willing to do anal only so my deep hate what I have against pussy is the fact that in order to get anal sex I always had to fuck the pussy to get the girls in the right mood or even worse had to lick and suck that disgusting thing witch was for me 100% sure mood killer and many times couldn't get a hard on witch of course was always extremely embarrassing for a teenager.

Anyway things started to go way better after I turned 20 years old and started to find girls that are more interested in to anal sex and started traveling all over the world and meeting more and more girls suitable for me and after meeting my perfect wife in Thailand can honestly say that my sex life is perfect... We have 4 kids and if don't count the times we tried to have kids we have been anal only for more than 14 years and last time I fucked any other girls pussy than my wife it has been at least 16 years...

Long story yes but had to share it with you guys and I'm recommending to everybody doesn't matter where you are from your religion your age or color that AO lifestyle is by far the best and will bring you so much closer to you loved one and give you pleasures that vaginal sex can not do even in a billion years.

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by *DH* » Sat Sep 17, 2016 3:12 pm

Like some folks have described, the psychological component plays a big role for me as well. I like the level of intimacy it can suggest, and the idea that women can indeed achieve real pleasure from something most people have been socialized to believe is "unnatural." I also agree with the aesthetic aspect - the anal ring is really appealing to look at, and also has an amazing texture/feel around my dick and fingers. I actually get really turned on by just feeling it wrapped around my fingers when I'm warming someone up for the main course.
I think the day I accepted that I had an anal preference was when I was losing my hard-on during vaginal sex and had to stick my fingers in her butt to get it back :D .

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by singleinDC » Sat Sep 17, 2016 3:48 pm

*DH* wrote:I think the day I accepted that I had an anal preference was when I was losing my hard-on during vaginal sex and had to stick my fingers in her butt to get it back :D .

I know that one... what about the "close your eyes and imagine it's in her ass" trick? :D

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by *DH* » Sat Sep 17, 2016 4:46 pm

singleinDC wrote:
*DH* wrote:I think the day I accepted that I had an anal preference was when I was losing my hard-on during vaginal sex and had to stick my fingers in her butt to get it back :D .

I know that one... what about the "close your eyes and imagine it's in her ass" trick? :D


Haha yeah that one too! :lol:

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by fantasizing-realist » Fri Nov 03, 2017 2:15 pm

amorous945 wrote:I also strongly believe that the anus/rectum has evolved to perfectly accommodate the human need for pleasure that far exceeds the necessity of procreation.



Well, no. That's not really true. While there is decent evidence that it's currently evolvign in that direction, humans simply haven't been doing it ong enough for it have made much progress.
amorous945 wrote:This has always been true of my wife. She never produces any natural vaginal lubrication, regardless of how aroused she is.

Wait, your wife? Your other posts indicate that you are the female in your relationship. Is there something you're hiding from us?

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by fantasizing-realist » Fri Nov 03, 2017 2:19 pm

Strident wrote:I'll be really blunt:

A woman shits out her anus.

Even the most beautiful immaculately dressed woman, with perfect hair, and make up, who only ever smells of expensive perfume....shits out her anus.

Anal sex, or anal play like rimming, therefore (excuse the pun) cuts through all the crap.

Even if you are someone who likes anal to be physically clean, I'm pretty convinced that something about the fact the anus is primarily for shitting out of, psychologically explains why we find it sexually exciting

In terms of why anal only is more appealing? That's complicated. I actually Like vaginal sex. So why is the idea of being with a woman who denies me it and only allows me access to her ass (ideally not even letting me touch her pussy or clit EVER) so appealing? Hard to explain that

Hate to break it to you, but scatophilia is not in fact the norm. fecal matter is unhealthy to do anything with other than dispose of, and you are a sexual deviant.

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by AnnoMundi » Sat Nov 04, 2017 11:30 am

Dude, you're replying to age old conversations that the original people may have already forgotten about. On most forums thread necromancy is considered a bad thing. To be ridiculed for at best and a bannable offense at worst. I don't know the policy regarding thread necromancy, but a good rule of thumb is to stay away from threads nobody has replied to since last year, unless you are offering a radical new insight.

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by fantasizing-realist » Tue Dec 12, 2017 12:34 pm

AnnoMundi wrote:Dude, you're replying to age old conversations that the original people may have already forgotten about. On most forums thread necromancy is considered a bad thing. To be ridiculed for at best and a bannable offense at worst. I don't know the policy regarding thread necromancy, but a good rule of thumb is to stay away from threads nobody has replied to since last year, unless you are offering a radical new insight.

Sorry. relatively new here.

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by ILoveToButtFuck » Sat Dec 23, 2017 2:32 pm

I loved butt fucking since I was a kid, now 49 and still doing anal and loving it. For me it’s

1) I just love the female ass
2) I love the female anus
3) it feels amazing
4) it’s kinky
5) women tend to orgasm harder when I’m in their asshole (penis is 7”)
6) no fear of pregnancy
7) you can cum in her butthole
8) it’s perfectly shaped for the male penis
9) I love love love the dirtiness of it
10) my best orgasms have come from anal sex
11) and I firmly believe her butthole was for recreation as the other hole is for procreation

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Re: Why do you prefer anal sex?

Post by mat5x » Sat Dec 23, 2017 9:48 pm

AnnoMundi wrote:Dude, you're replying to age old conversations that the original people may have already forgotten about. On most forums thread necromancy is considered a bad thing. To be ridiculed for at best and a bannable offense at worst. I don't know the policy regarding thread necromancy, but a good rule of thumb is to stay away from threads nobody has replied to since last year, unless you are offering a radical new insight.

Thread necromancy works great on smaller boards with lots of knowledge and lore buried deep within. Without it, the board dies. I'll leave it up to admin, but I think we like being able to have new people join in, find something very specific about something someone else posted, and reply to it instead of not offering their view because the info is 15 minutes old.

Anyway this should be in meta I guess, but probably wont be because the admin likely agrees he doesnt want to kill his own board that isnt (yet) gathering 5000 new posts a day.

As for the topic at hand -- definitely not into scat, though there is a cognitive dissonance about the supposed dirtyness of someone's butt and the lofty pedestals men often put their objects of desire on - as the most angelic clean beings on the earth - therefore their butts are also clean right? But butts are also taboo (because of societal norms borne of hygenic risks and lack of modern medicine before 50+ years ago.) Also there's something about the twin globes of a well formed rear advertising suitability of a woman to be loved backwards where as vaginas don't have much advertising going on (cameltoe notwithstanding, but I dont really find it hot). Also, practicality - an opening for pleasure only without being tricked into (accidentally) procreating seems more appealing as well.

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