Anal Only Lesbians ??

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by analgirl1 » Sun Feb 19, 2017 4:26 am

i am a lesbian and i am anal only for about 7 years and i admit that i have alot of gf that are anal only
so yes there is alot of lesbians that are into AO life but they do not say it

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by analsexonly » Mon Mar 13, 2017 7:28 am

Why do you think that is? Just general privacy and secrecy that most people have surrounding their sexuality, or is there something in particular about anal only that might make lesbians less inclined to talk about it?

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by analgirl1 » Sun May 14, 2017 11:57 am

i really do not know why
this is strange maybe they are shy to admit it ??

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by Buttwoman » Sun May 14, 2017 4:04 pm

Ok, I admit to not being 100% lesbian, I'm bi with a heavy leaning toward women.
I am, and I know anal only lesbians. We might be rare, but a lot of women who love women also love anal.
I play with women with tongues, toys, and fists in their assholes.

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by Jojo355 » Sat Jun 10, 2023 2:50 am

I am a lesbian and I enjoy anal penetration more then vaginal, simply because my vagina is ridiculously sensitive honestly it just gets way too intense and messy. Constantly having to prepare my bed for the inevitable onslaught of liquid is just not worth it for me. Granted, though I do use a butt plug and sometimes, if I use a strapless dildo I insert in anally versus vaginally. Generally, penetration is something I only partake in during masturbation. I like feeling full but generally don't enjoy being pounded. I usually find a spot that feels really good and rub that spot rather then pounding in and out.
I think it is harder for most men to resist pounding hard when they are about to climax which can be pleasant for some but unpleasant for others. There also is the matter of the, all too often, complete neglect of the clit and the fact that the anus does not naturally produce lubrication and counter to what porn will tell you spit is not enough.
I also think that lesbians who are anal only tend to have actually experienced anal themselves so are more aware of how to navigate it in a way that is pleasurable for their partners.
In my extensive experience with women I have never met a lesbian who is anal only. I have met a lot who enjoy anal but never one who does it exclusively. I usually get women very worked up, wet and in that urgent state before I penetrate anally. They tend to be much more relax and less in there heads so that psychological obstacle completely dissipates.
I know why I prefer anal but it is definitely not because I don't find vaginally unpleasant.
I would love to hear other lesbians reasons for going exclusively anal. If it wasn't such a pain in the ass *lol* I would definitely use both, preferably at the same time. Unless it is a dom/sub power dynamic thing, I don't really understand why you will deny one pleasure when you can have both. I also, wonder if men who participate in anal stimulation find that it makes their female partners more receptive to anal themselves.

Also, as an aside, I think straight couples often have anal sex doggy style or bulldog doggy style and these positions can feel impersonal and less intimate then other positions. For a lot of women sex isn't just about pleasure it's about intimacy and connection. They tend to like a lot of skin to skin contact. I would try the spooning as an introduction and lots of clitoral stimulation and lube. If you are not anal only I would also warm up with vaginal penetration of some sort.

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Re: Anal Only Lesbians ??

Post by Colt1911 » Sat Jun 10, 2023 8:47 am

@Jojo355 as an anal only couple I can tell you my wife produces natural lubrication. I’ve seen it referred to as “anal jelly” and I’d describe it as a white, translucent, mucous-like substance. She uses a saline enema before anal sex, so this added moisture may contribute to her natural lubrication. We only need a tiny amount of lube or saliva for initial penetration or insertion of a toy. She enjoys the feeling of penetration without too much lubrication. Once I penetrate her, I seldom need additional lubrication.

We are anal only with respect to penetration. She loves clitoral stimulation before and during anal penetration. As her anal orgasm approaches, she’ll toss the vibrator aside to enjoy the anal orgasm alone. She used to gush during anal but it’s more like a drip now. Anal is the most intimate sexual act and the quality of my orgasm is directly related to the intensity of her anal orgasm. Ironically, her favorite position is standing bent over the bed while mine is missionary on the side of the bed so I can watch her cum. I can control my orgasm until she has 2 or 3 anal orgasms. After that, I pound away until I cum.

Anal only happened for us because she is unable to orgasm from vaginal penetration. Prior to anal, she could only have clitoral orgasms. Clit stimulation seems to enhance her anal pleasure leading to anal orgasm.

I wanted to clarify that 1) some people produce a natural lubricant in their rectum, and 2) the clit is ALWAYS in play for some anal only couples like us.

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