Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

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Daniel0583
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Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by Daniel0583 » Tue Sep 14, 2021 3:45 am

Hi all,
I am a male (38) my wife was playing with her vibrator on my and went near my ass and it felt really good. Since then we purchased the lelo hugo prostate massager. We had a few goes at stretching me with fingers, I purchased a strap on with a dildo 1 3/8” wide 6.5” insertable length. I took that in without blinking. I have now ordered a inflatable dildo (not plug) in the hopes that it will stretch my opening as a pose to the plugs which stretch the inside. I also purchased 11” long, 2.35” wide dildo which should arrive in a few weeks. I tried to insert a 2” butt plug tonight and could not get it in. I’m hoping the inflatable dildo will stretch me in preparation for the big strap on dildoni ordsred.

Question. Does anyone use j-lube. Is it worth buying or is it something more used for fisting. Should I be using a lube syringe and injecting lube into my ass before playing with big toys.

And going at my own pace (which I will probably push. How quick (using the inflatable dildo) could I expect to stretch my anus to accomodate a 2.35” dildo when I can probably only take 1.7” currently.

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AnalJay
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Re: Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by AnalJay » Thu Sep 16, 2021 12:33 am

I use an inflatable butt plug. I have noticed fast results with daily use. I use a lube called Spunk hybrid. I started this so my wife could fist me and we are almost all the way in now. The butt plug I use does also stretch the outside. You keep pumping it until it forces itself out, and that feels great. I just do it twice in the morning. First time I count to 60 between each pump, until it pops out. second time I pump it steadily, in a position where it is harder for it to come out, so it inflates further. Feels fantastic. The plug is made from latex as I found the silicone inflatable ones break one way or the other (though I prefer to use silicone dildos for sex play in general). You may want to do Kegel exercises to keep everything toned. If done right you should be able to accommodate large objects while still having a healthy, toned sphincter.

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Re: Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by AnalJay » Thu Sep 16, 2021 1:05 am

Thought you might like to see my progress Date: day month year, circumference of inflatable butt plug in inches and fractions:


16/9/21 15 6/8

31/8/21 15 1/2

25/8/21 15 3/8

19/8/21 15"

19/7/21 14 7/8

14/7/21 14 3/8

6/7/21 14 1/4

29/6/21 13 7/8

28/6/21 13 5/8

22/6/21 13 1/2

21/6/21 13 3/8

4/6/21 12 5/8

3/6/21 12 2/8

2/6/21 12

27/5/21 11 6/8

26/5/21 11 1/2

18/5/21 11 1/8

17/5/21 10 3/8

13/5/21 10

5/5/21 9 4/16

28/4/21 9

23/4/21 8 15/16

15/4/21 8 1/16

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Re: Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by Daniel0583 » Mon Sep 20, 2021 6:11 am

Hi jay,
Thanks for the tips. I didn’t get the photos. Are you able to advise which inflatable plug you use . Cheers

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Re: Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by AnalJay » Tue Sep 21, 2021 1:37 am

It's this kind of thing; but I can't remember where I actually got it from - was probably either Lovehoney or a latex clothe store - I figure that if they make clothes they will know how to bond material together properly - The silicone ones I tried either leaked from a seam eventually or from the joint between the plastic end and the silicone plug body. But the latex ones seem to be properly bonded. I have had mine a while and it is fine, even tugging on the pipe it hasn't come away from the body. It's a great sensation, especially when your stomach starts to spasm with the pressure - or maybe that's just me. hahah if you get one let me know how it goes, or just put a post on with your experience of it.

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Post by AnalJay » Tue Sep 21, 2021 1:40 am

Oh, I didn't send photos. I just thought you could see the stats and get an idea of how your progress might go. kinda time scale you might expect.

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Re: Anal stretching, inflatable dildo and lube injection

Post by AnalJay » Tue Sep 21, 2021 3:09 am

Found my old order, Yes it was this one
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/bu ... 12849.html

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