Do I just keep going or what?

Buttonit · Post by **Buttonit** » Fri Jan 14, 2022 7:25 am

Hi, I'm new to anal but my new girlfriend prefers it. We’ve done it a couple of times now. In the past when I have had regular sex, after I cum I lose my erection and I basically stop. But I have had anal sex with my girlfriend twice and each time, after I have cum inside her I don’t lose my erection straightaway. I don’t know if it is her ass muscle acting like a cock ring or what. I don’t know what I should do, what is the protocol? So far I have pulled out shortly after I have cum, but I am thinking maybe I should have kept going. But then what if I lose my hardon as I am still thrusting, or is that just what people into anal do. She hasn’t said anything, so I figured it was just like regular sex, that it’s ok to stop when you cum. But I am wondering, what do other, more experienced people do? Should I just keep going as long as I have an erection. I feel a bit silly asking her what normally happens during anal. I am hoping this is the place to ask such a thing.

Backdoorlover · Post by **Backdoorlover** » Fri Jan 14, 2022 7:50 am

I get what you’re saying. In my first marriage it was 99.9% vaginal sex. And after I came it was game over. I got limp.

Now that I have a woman who is into anal as main event, I too stay hard 7/10 times after orgasm. So I keep it in her ass, and fuck her some more. She loves it. If it were up to her I would be fucking her ass for 2 hours each night.

So just keep going so your girlfriend can enjoy having her ass fucked some more. She will tell you if she prefers different approaches. Be chill.

Buttonit · Post by **Buttonit** » Fri Jan 14, 2022 9:54 am

Backdoorlover wrote: ↑
Fri Jan 14, 2022 7:50 am
So just keep going so your girlfriend can enjoy having her ass fucked some more.

Thanks, I'll give it a go and see if I can last. I wonder if that's what everyone here does, like that's how anals done? I think I have just got used to the habit of once you cum in a vagina, that's it over. I wasn't sure how it would be having anal instead of vaginal but it felt great and if I can have sex for longer, give her an orgasm even (like I didn't know girls could really have orgasms from anal) maybe it's the way to go. I seemed to last longer in the first place, it's a different feeling - I'm liking it!

Backdoorlover · Post by **Backdoorlover** » Fri Jan 14, 2022 11:18 am

Don’t think too much but feel. Anal is all about enjoying sex in it’s fullest.