For her to enjoy anal she needs me to stimulate her clitoris so spooning usually works best. Often the anal combined with the clitoral stimulation is what gets her to orgasm and let me just say that her ass pulsing on my cock while deep inside her is incredible. Typically after she orgasms, she likes me to eat her out which causes her to orgasm again.
I know that anal orgasms can be more powerful than clitoral/vaginal and would love for my wife to have amazing mind blowing anal orgasms. I’m just looking for advice on how to help her transition from her orgasming from clitoral stimulation to anal only, especially when the clit stimulation is part of what keeps her excited during anal sex.
One is her on her back, ass elevated by pillows, legs in the air. We use a special triangular shaped pillow called "Liberator". In this position, I hold her ankles firmly so that her knees are almost at level with her tits and I thrust against her G-spot from inside her asshole. We've had some very deep, intense anal orgasms like this.
Other one is doggy style when she has her ass up, head down and arms along her sides. She has this spot I can reach when I'm almost all the way in, and I can tell I'm at the right spot by the volume of her moans and the way her whole body reacts. At this stage I can easily shift my balance so that my cock hits this spot over and over with great power. When I increase tempo and intensity in my thrusts her orgasms build up.
This is an anal only forum and not about edge&denial, but to me this seems to be a significant component in my partners anal enjoyment. We practice long term orgasm denial combined with daily edging which makes her so horny her head is spinning. At the time of writing she's passed 100 days without orgasms and she's required to bring herself to the edge orgasms at least an hour every day.
Outside the anal orgasms she's had in the past, she's actively denyed anal orgasms while we fuck and it's very easy to bring her to the edge in these two positions. A jedi mind trick to help your partner reaching anal orgasms could perhaps be tell them they're not allowed to cum...
but she pulls it off her clit when she knows she’s going to orgasm. All it took was her first anal orgasm and we’ve been anal only for 4 years.