How do I convince my boyfriend to be anal only (receiving)?

[Gapeman]

I have the opposite problem. What you describe is a dream to me...the kind of relationship I wish I had. How long have you been with your bf? If he really loves you maybe he will understand and get comfortable with it but it’s hard to make a man give up penetration if he’s not into it. At some point he will want to fuck!
I just would love to be only get ass fucked by a strap on girl and never fuck her. If I were your bf I’d want you to fuck me every day. I’d give you my ass every time and everywhere you want it!!
Since you like watching porn together let porn help you. Put him on a strict anal only (receiving) porn diet. Jerk and blow him off while watching some super hot strap on videos. Make him watch lots of forced bi and sissy hypnos video. That’s what made me crave to have girlfriends who makes me an anal only slut

[Samy]

- Only use ass for pleasure for a certain time, ignoring penis/clit ->improves pleasure (could work for both of you)

Does this actually work? He's not into chastity in any case. If I don't have non-penetrative sex with him, he will watch porn and get himself off. Unlike some girls I'm fine with that. It's a fine line to make him keep the right amount of interest in our sex.

I'm gay, bottom only, my penis never gets stimulated, and I can guarantee this works. I actually followed analsexonly's advices (the owner of this blog) for women, when he said a woman ignoring her clit would have much greater anal pleasure.

I started ignoring my penis four years ago, doing as analsexonly said, fingering my ass instead of jerking my penis off every times I felt like masturbating. At first it was really hard because my cock was really frustrated, but then, my pleasure during penetration really increased, then eventually it skyrocketed to the point of feeling totally different, and I finally felt my first anal orgasms while getting fucked hard in the ass.

From there, there was no coming back: penis stimulation didn't appear to increase pleasure for me any more, it instead felt like taking pleasure away from my ass. It therefore became very easy to ignore, especially since I eventually got anal orgasms from fingering myself. I only ejaculate by being fucked in the ass. It does work.

For your boyfriend... he's straight and wants to fuck, so it's harder to convert him. To make him anal only like you want, I'd suggest increasing anal dependency as a first step: every time his penis is stimulated, make it so his ass is stimulated as well: if he fucks you or if you blow his cock or if his cock is jerked, make it so he has always something in his ass during the act - it can be a finger or a butt plug. At first, tell him that'll make him used to anal pleasure and increase his general pleasure, and prepare him for strap-on action.

That first step will slowly "rewire" his brain to associate pleasure and orgasm to anal stimulation. If he's always stimulated anally when his cock is stimulated, that'll start a transfer, psychologically and sexually.

Then when he's used to that, tell him anal pleasure is much greater when you ignore your cock. You can limit cock stimulation little by little, and when his anal pleasure starts being stronger than cock pleasure, you can get him to be anal only, ideally forever.

[Quebass]

This is exactly what my girl did to me. She gets so turned on by watching me rock hard and cumming with a dildo in my ass. Holding each other and kissing whilst we fuck dildos is on another level. Sometimes she sees that I'm about to blow and she will turn round let me rim her ass.

[xr8ed]

On the other hand, how would I introduce the notion of pegging to my gf? I'm willing to try but not sure how to approach it without weirding her out. Maybe after one of her pleasurable sessions I'll jokingly ask that I wish I knew what she was feeling, and go from there.

[sana]

This is interesting.
I do a close friend i n her laye 20s who is dating a guy. They have been together for about 5 years now. They are both Indian.

She is a virgin ad plans on being a virgin till she is married.
I know she has sucked dicks and given handjobs before. But no guy has been allowed to touch her vagina. No hands no licking or grinding beyond her pants. Ive seen this at bachelorette parties plenty of times... Ive seen her stroke, suck and drink; but never once let them touch her below the belt.

However, she has been fucking him in the ass with her strapon for 3.5 years now. Its been their normal sezx

[Metal266]

Happened to me with my ex girlfriend. We have been together for long time and i convince her to take it in the ass pretty quickly. She was not experienced so we trained slowly. She wanted to play with my ass too. It was weird for me at the beginning. We started to prepare for anal together. Giving enema each other was fun and bonding experience. She slowly stretched me... it was so Hot when she put me her big but plug lubed with pussy juices. And i started to love it... a lot... She used her pussy pump on my asshole. Pushed completely inside me her 42cm double ended dildo. We share it together. And i ended up fisted til her ellbow. Her hand deep in my belly moving around was insane experience. Now i have huge asshole. And would like to do it again

[sana]

Its actually a beautiful relationship if you ask me.
My friend didn't tell many ppl about it as ita outside social normal. To this day she has never had a dick in her except for her mouth (and only at the parties- she hasn't sucked her bf) Relationship wise, no one has touched her vagina- she will be very pure.

Its great you can share something special like this Metal.
Its very rare. You have shared a double dildo, would.you share a cock too? My bf and i have done it a few times. Its really exciting! (not AO those times)

[Metal266]

Yeah it was really nice, bonding experience. I fucked all her holes and big tits. We practiced vaginal sex as well. A lot
We never asked for aditional man as i don't want to take real dick, and we were monogamous. It was so special for me as no one ever touched my asshole before. Allso there was health benefit. She had problem with going to toilet everyday especially in strange places. After anal training everything was fine. It is even better for my, never been constipated after this. She really stretched me
But feeling of her hand deep in... amazing... like she is touching my brain from within. Really felt fingers inside my head

[Dantanner]

You should tell him straight forward that this is how its going to be from now on.. (it is anyway.)
You should be doing it more and more. You do know he likes it or he would not do it at all. The more you do it the more he will like it. He is lucky to have someone like you in his life. You would not be doing this if you didn't love him so deeply.

[sana]

My husband only receives strapon sex from me.
So it is extreamly enjoyable for men. They ejaculate from amal sex so it means they get pleasure from penis and anus.