Germanik wrote: ↑Mon Sep 16, 2024 8:43 amYes I do have an update.
Regarding the bratty behavior. There is definitely something to be said that my (and I'd probably argue most) wives prefer a dominant male.
But our relationship isn't the type where she'd be ok with me outright controlling her and forcing something on her (her sister in law would be that person). She does seem to like me persisting when she says no and I "manhandle" her a little, but it's our relationship where I'd not disrespect her if she was truly uncomfortable with where things were headed. We had a rocky past that included separation for over a year and near divorce- so we have been rebuilding trust and part of that I think is being a strong leader but not forcing something on her that we aren't ready for yet.
I think she has become much more open to the act. We haven't gotten to full on anal sex yet, but she is more relaxed about the whole idea now. If I am horned up and sex isn't on the table- we have been waiting for a while until my vasectomy results come back A-OK, then she will entertain me by spreading/puckering her anus for me and letting me rub one out. I keep nudging her along asking her to finger her ass or let me lick it- which is progress even in itself that she doesn't outright refuse anymore. I think she is getting more used to the idea that it's not that big a deal and she gets turned on knowing it turns me on. We still enjoy vaginal and she basically always cums with a finger in her ass. I don't know if its because it turns me on and my cock gets bigger, it turns her on because it feels good, or both- but it's pretty standard for us now.
A step in the right direction!
If I may make a recommendation, I think your current path is a good one and you should continue this way. Lightly rubbing and licking are key and if you only do this without pursuing penetration, you will likely have eventual success. It is great that she is accepting of your finger too. This is a long road, but a rewarding one.
