AnnoMundi wrote: And that's probably what most men who are into anal do. They probably don't expect to get any anal, period, or hopefully that only after some considerable time that she might get adventurous.
Not this guy, that's for sure. I've had loads of luck finding women who are into anal because I've been in the kink scene since I was in my early 20s. It's practically kindergarten stuff to most of the people I've met.
I've even met a couple of women who either were anal-only or were into me purely because I like anal so much. They needed to get it in the ass, and for a while there, I was the go-to guy for it, so they were direct about what they wanted.
I'm not quite hung up on anal-only, it's more of a welcome surprise to me. But either way, if I were ever dating in the vanilla world again, it's a second date question as far as I'm concerned. If they're not at least interested, I'm outta there.
Dating is a process of elimination I say. Don't be afraid to scare them away if they aren't interested in the real you.