Fisting
Fisting
I have started self exploration about anal since last year and I had improved from only be able to take 2fingers to 4fingers up to knuckles at most. How can I train to be able to do self fisting? What dangers are there and what to do is i have anal prolapse after fisting?
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I've been following your posts since #1, and trying to offer some real advice.
I think you are really seriously jumping the gun here. Your fist is not going in until you can take 3" (7.5 cm.) easily, every time. I don't know what size you are at now, but probably not there. Play every day. It has to be a challenge every time or you are not making progress. Stop on days it's just not going in, or hurting too much.
Now, assuming a dildo that big is going in every time. Clean out well, and play with your biggest toys for a good half hour or so. Get your butt, and your mind completely relaxed. Fisting is about 80% mental. When you ass is at it's loosest, and sloppiest, squirt some lube directly into it.
There are two positions to try. On your knees, one hand on the ground, butt up, reach around, and stick in all you can handle. Rotate, push, thrust, just keep going, a bit deeper each time. When you get to your knuckles, Breath deep, relax. Let your mind go. One last deep breathe, and push it in. Pretty much guarantee it will hurt, but only for a second. Let nature take it's course, and move around as you see fit.
Standing. Exactly the same, but if on your knees didn't work, at the knuckles, back up and use a wall or the door to push your elbow. It may give that extra leverage, and flex that you need.
By nature self fisting is much easier for women, with our flexible hips. I know some men that never got it in. Short arms...I don't know.
You can easily, and pleasurably fist for the rest of your life without prolapsing. The prolapse is BY FAR the stupidest pornstar trick of all time. Pornstars who are just giving what their idiotic public wants do it on purpose by PUSHING, not by the size of the toy/penis/fist. If you think it's sexy you seriously need help. There's nothing like carrying some of your intestines around in your pants.
It took me a LONG, LONG time to get a man's fist in my ass. Now, I can get one in in about a half hour, if the gentleman is a bit knowledgable, or takes direction well.
Edit- Using someone else's fist is much easier.
I think you are really seriously jumping the gun here. Your fist is not going in until you can take 3" (7.5 cm.) easily, every time. I don't know what size you are at now, but probably not there. Play every day. It has to be a challenge every time or you are not making progress. Stop on days it's just not going in, or hurting too much.
Now, assuming a dildo that big is going in every time. Clean out well, and play with your biggest toys for a good half hour or so. Get your butt, and your mind completely relaxed. Fisting is about 80% mental. When you ass is at it's loosest, and sloppiest, squirt some lube directly into it.
There are two positions to try. On your knees, one hand on the ground, butt up, reach around, and stick in all you can handle. Rotate, push, thrust, just keep going, a bit deeper each time. When you get to your knuckles, Breath deep, relax. Let your mind go. One last deep breathe, and push it in. Pretty much guarantee it will hurt, but only for a second. Let nature take it's course, and move around as you see fit.
Standing. Exactly the same, but if on your knees didn't work, at the knuckles, back up and use a wall or the door to push your elbow. It may give that extra leverage, and flex that you need.
By nature self fisting is much easier for women, with our flexible hips. I know some men that never got it in. Short arms...I don't know.
You can easily, and pleasurably fist for the rest of your life without prolapsing. The prolapse is BY FAR the stupidest pornstar trick of all time. Pornstars who are just giving what their idiotic public wants do it on purpose by PUSHING, not by the size of the toy/penis/fist. If you think it's sexy you seriously need help. There's nothing like carrying some of your intestines around in your pants.
It took me a LONG, LONG time to get a man's fist in my ass. Now, I can get one in in about a half hour, if the gentleman is a bit knowledgable, or takes direction well.
Edit- Using someone else's fist is much easier.
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Thank you for your advice, I had realised I was too impatience too. Just curious, I asked this as I can also look at this again if I am capable of doing it.
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Just keep trying. Getting there is half the fun.
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The only dangers I can warn of would be in trying to force progression. You need to figure out the circumference of your hand when shaped for entry, and realize that you need to be able to take at least this much girth from your current dildo. Forcing progress will, as you'd expect, only break your asshole. The other danger is in the relative contortion a man needs to make, in order to get his hand far enough behind him for the feat. If your back is not flexible enough, you're going to give yourself a back problem you'll regret. You don't want a dislocated disk, or worse, for your efforts. So I'd say you also need to learn how to safely ensure or improve your spine flexibility, at the same time you're trying to expand your backdoor capabilities. Mid wrist is as far as I can manage, since beyond that, I cannot get my arm at an appropriate angle.
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I have tried several times over the years, but never taken more than four fingers and just a thumb tip. My anus simply won't stretch enough. My current gf has been quite determined to do me, but even being stoned and using amyl and heaps of grease, and even though her hand is not large (smaller even than Trump's), it just won't go. No matter - it is fun until it starts to hurt and I sure enjoy her using various toys to stretch me first. Plus, I kinda like it that she doesn't get her way on this one, ha ha
