Tell my is there any kind of ointment or a special kind of lube that loosen up the anal sphincter? Something that you have used and it worked fine ?
Can you recommend something to me?
I want to use it for anal play.
That said—and knowing that it is not recommended by doctors and not legal in some countries, a product known as “poppers” are used recreationally (particularly in the gay club scene) to relax the smooth muscles of the anus and colon. They are typically inhaled through the nose and the effect lasts for a few seconds to a few minutes. A BIG word of caution about poppers: never ever EVER use them in conjunction with medicine like viagra or nitrates (like for angina / used for chest pain.) The combination can cause a deadly drop in blood pressure. So don’t ever combine them. Don’t even consider it. It has killed far too many perfectly healthy young people and sent many more to the hospital when they collapse.
Other things that can help are prescription muscle relaxers...and you may find that Over-The-Counter magnesium supplements help to some extent, as magnesium is a natural muscle relaxer. Magnesium is also a laxative, though, so maybe combine your supplementation with a high-colonic enema to get completely squeaky clean inside. Anal is always more fun when you know there’s no risk of a “party pooper” as it were.
To help the whole body relax, have the receiving partner take a long, soaking, hot bath in Epsom Salts (magnesium sulphate)...the combination of heat, soak, cleanliness, and magnesium can do wonders to help relax the anal muscles for receiving penetration.
Finally, maybe try hypnosis. Some people are very receptive to hypnotic suggestion, while others are not. A great deal of the clenching of the anal muscles is a response to fear (fear of pain, of embarrassment, or of being messy) and if you can address the fear, you’re most of the way to making conscious, intentional anal relaxation possible. ...of course, the other way to increase confidence and reduce fear is...you guessed it...lots of play and practice. We tend to only fear the things we don’t have a lot of experience with...
I know the best thing for anal play is to natural relax your buttHole. I have to work a lot with that. The thing is that I'm not able to train my ass daily - I'm not living alone in my house
Maybe on September I go to a business trip for about 3 months, so I will have a lot of time for myself to play alone when nobody is watching
Poppers ? I've heard about it, maybe It will be the last thing that I try when there will be no other ways.
Hmm I think you got my with the magnesium part. I suffer sometimes with muscle cramps - maybe I don't have enough magnesium in my body ?
A hot bath is also good, it relax the whole body so It also have to relax someone's butthole.
The thing with hypnosis have shocked and surprised me. First time I heard that it can help to relax the anus, but It make a lot of sense. I've never tried any kind of hypnosis so I don't know where to start, but I'm really curious about it, and whana give a try. Can you please give my some more information or stuff in the internet about it? Have you tried it?
Thanks a lot
ps. sorry for my english, I know that I make mistakes but It's not my first language