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girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by ProfessionalRest » Tue Mar 26, 2019 6:57 am

hi, my girlfriend seems open to the idea of anal sex and enjoys it when i finger her butt. but when i get my finger deeper (like after the second knuckle) she complains that it feels like she has to poop, which i guess is not a sensation she enjoys. is this common? any advice on what to do?

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Re: girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by gurlcrazy » Thu Mar 28, 2019 11:37 am

This is partly a matter of experience. After doing it for a while that feeling will become less noticeable. The more turned on she is during anal stimulation, the quicker this will happen.

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Re: girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by luv2play45 » Sun Mar 31, 2019 10:57 am

Well, to state the obvious, maybe there is poop up there.
You can feel it best when you have your finger(s) up her butt.
If you feel any poop advise her to make another trip to the bathroom.
Poop in the rectum can make for uncomfortable anal sex.
Not only can it be messy but pushing against it and thereby stretching the rectum must certainly be a turn off.

No need to feel embarrassed or icky about it.
This initial exploration can become part of your foreplay as it is for my wife & I (anal only for 25 years).
We never have full on anal until I have done a couple of digital exams.
Only after she is sure she is really cleaned out does she relax and start down the path to Orgasm Land.

As you can guess from the above, no, she does not do an enema beforehand and never has.
She is a nurse and has an aversion to them.
This is no problem for me because "finding the intruders" as we call it brings us closer as a couple and lengthens the time devoted to anal sex.

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Re: girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by johnywest » Tue Apr 02, 2019 4:34 am

You should get her a buttplug, a small one, as thick as you index finger, something like this: ... -flirt-red

Because she is an anal virgin, getting over the 'need to poop' sensation is the first step. Gently insert the well lubed buttplug, then let her relax for at least 10-15 minutes with the buttplug inserted. She needs time to focus and get used to the sensation of having her ass full, so it's better to do this when you are not having sex, this should be just an anal training session. Walking around the house while holding the buttplug inserted will help her get used to it and see that she has nothing to worry about. After 15 minutes she shouldn't feel anything at all, no pain, no discomfort, no need to poop, that means the training is working, but don't leave it in for more than 30 minutes as she will start to get sore.

She will need a few training sessions like this, then she will be able to get over the need to poop sensation faster and she will be able to move on to larger buttplugs and eventually she will be ready for anal sex. If she's training her asshole every day for 15-30 minutes with the buttplug inserted, she should be able to go from anal virgin to anal success in a week.

Of course if she feels any pain just stop and try again another day.
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Re: girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by analsexonly » Wed Apr 10, 2019 7:38 am

Combine anal penetration with clit stimulation and make sure she orgasms frequently with something in her ass. Over time, she'll be able to separate the feeling of something in her ass from the feeling of needing to go to the bathroom and be able to associate it with pleasure instead.

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Re: girlfriend feels like she has to poop

Post by Bosshoggg » Sat Mar 21, 2020 9:39 pm

Its mental cause she is a newby. Assure her that she doesnt have to, that if she did you wont freak out and just try to get her to relax. Combine however she likes her clit played with with the anal fingering. You need her to tie them together mentally. I dont want to use the term brainwash but when i first met my wife she had never liked anal now she cant cum without some sort of anal stimulation. Its all about building the pleasure association.

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