You can feel it best when you have your finger(s) up her butt.
If you feel any poop advise her to make another trip to the bathroom.
Poop in the rectum can make for uncomfortable anal sex.
Not only can it be messy but pushing against it and thereby stretching the rectum must certainly be a turn off.
No need to feel embarrassed or icky about it.
This initial exploration can become part of your foreplay as it is for my wife & I (anal only for 25 years).
We never have full on anal until I have done a couple of digital exams.
Only after she is sure she is really cleaned out does she relax and start down the path to Orgasm Land.
As you can guess from the above, no, she does not do an enema beforehand and never has.
She is a nurse and has an aversion to them.
This is no problem for me because "finding the intruders" as we call it brings us closer as a couple and lengthens the time devoted to anal sex.
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Because she is an anal virgin, getting over the 'need to poop' sensation is the first step. Gently insert the well lubed buttplug, then let her relax for at least 10-15 minutes with the buttplug inserted. She needs time to focus and get used to the sensation of having her ass full, so it's better to do this when you are not having sex, this should be just an anal training session. Walking around the house while holding the buttplug inserted will help her get used to it and see that she has nothing to worry about. After 15 minutes she shouldn't feel anything at all, no pain, no discomfort, no need to poop, that means the training is working, but don't leave it in for more than 30 minutes as she will start to get sore.
She will need a few training sessions like this, then she will be able to get over the need to poop sensation faster and she will be able to move on to larger buttplugs and eventually she will be ready for anal sex. If she's training her asshole every day for 15-30 minutes with the buttplug inserted, she should be able to go from anal virgin to anal success in a week.
Of course if she feels any pain just stop and try again another day.
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