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Hi,

My girlfriend loves anal however I´m not able to last very long time before I cum. Is there advice / ways (I suspect it has something to do with her having a tight butt) on how to last longer?

Any advice would be appriciated!

Thanks

Chris

My boyfriend sometimes masturbates a few hours before so he lasts longer

A condom helps sometimes.

Slow down, pace yourself and try to think of baseball
You could also try what Jody said, you will be able to last much longer if you already had an orgasm that day.

Have you discussed honestly about how she feels about that?
Because some women don't like when it's too long and are perfectly ok with a quick go.

Just do it 2 times... Consider your first orgasm an appetizer and fill her ass twice

I find that if I use a good silicone lube I will last a long time. Also try sitting astride her and giving her a back rub with maybe some coconut oil, then use the oil as lube (or use the silicone lube on your cock) and ease your cock in to her, try to make it all part of the same thing, so you are not getting over excited. Rub her back and just let the motion of you slowly rubbing her back gently rock you in her ass. Slowly let the two motions merge. Just let it be relaxing and nice. we have a nice view out of the window, so we leave the curtains open and I just enjoy the view along with the sensation for a slow, relaxing screw. Once you cum, let her tight ass hole act as a cock ring and stay inside her, just slowly continuing to rub and stroke her back, so she continues to get the back rub and the anal sensation and your brain learns not to rush.

From my experience most men can't last long with anal. A few strokes and they fill me up with hot cum.

I don't really know how to help with this. My bf can last a bit longer, but noting like he used to last with my vagina. I find it lasts longer when he is going slow and deep and I stay open for him. (i clamp down hard sometimes to give him a suprises tickle)

The other thing you could try is lots of slow wet blowjobs before sex.

My ex used numbing lube which helped him last for a while but it was not very tasty! Fortunately my boyfriend is able to keep his erection for ages and like our friends often require oral to finish which suits me fine. My boyfriend is a HGV driver and he imagines driving on the M1, the most boring motorway. Hey it works.

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Sun Mar 31, 2024 4:08 pm

My ex used numbing lube which helped him last for a while but it was not very tasty! Fortunately my boyfriend is able to keep his erection for ages and like our friends often require oral to finish which suits me fine. My boyfriend is a HGV driver and he imagines driving on the M1, the most boring motorway. Hey it works.

Easier said than done, but when I feel myself building to orgasm I sometimes pull out and rim or finger her ass. I also make sure she has an anal orgasm before I cum in her ass. As many of us already know, so much about sex is in our minds and finding ways to delay orgasm involve mind over matter. Once in a while, I’m able to hold off until she has her second anal orgasm.