What if?

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What if?

Post by Jody » Thu Apr 04, 2019 4:57 pm

If your SO suddenly cut you off from anal permanently, would you ever consider leaving or taking another lover? It is very hard to find someone who enjoys this lifestyle!

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Re: What if?

Post by amaizeg » Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:22 am

Take another lover most likely. I wouldn't be with someone just for the sex, so I'd have other reasons to be with someone than just because they like anal sex.

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Re: What if?

Post by French Lover » Sat Apr 13, 2019 11:13 am

Is it so hard? I don't know. I would say that it depends on what you value most in life. If being sexually in phase with your lover is important, you should definitly have a talk and eventually end of searching someone else. There's plenty of fishes in the sea, and anal becomes more and more common.

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Re: What if?

Post by analsexonly » Mon Apr 15, 2019 8:12 am

Anal sex and being anal only is an essential part of my life, and while there's more to a relationship than sex, it is an important part, so if there was total sexual incompatibility in that way, I would very likely be unable to continue that relationship and would need a different partner.

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Re: What if?

Post by kingsman » Sat Apr 20, 2019 3:15 am

Essential here too. Once upon a time, before I'd tried anal, I would have thought that one type of sex would be that important. Now I know how much better it is than anything else and having got used to having anal often, I couldn't live without it.

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Re: What if?

Post by marjan » Wed Sep 25, 2019 3:36 am

I was in this situation. I accept my partner's decision but I quietly started looking around for an anal partner, and eventually I found one just for occasional anal sex and some occasional pastime. I keep this secret. Should she find out, I'd tell her the reason plain. She would stop toucing my cock but she probably would not split up, I suppose. I did not think about leaving my partner just because of her decision because there are many things tying us to each other, for instance love ;) .
Splitting up you might end up having no partner at all for some time, because it is not easy to find one under this special precondition we are sharing here.

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