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What if?

Posted: Thu Apr 04, 2019 4:57 pm
by Jody
If your SO suddenly cut you off from anal permanently, would you ever consider leaving or taking another lover? It is very hard to find someone who enjoys this lifestyle!

Re: What if?

Posted: Fri Apr 12, 2019 9:22 am
by amaizeg
Take another lover most likely. I wouldn't be with someone just for the sex, so I'd have other reasons to be with someone than just because they like anal sex.

Re: What if?

Posted: Sat Apr 13, 2019 11:13 am
by French Lover
Is it so hard? I don't know. I would say that it depends on what you value most in life. If being sexually in phase with your lover is important, you should definitly have a talk and eventually end of searching someone else. There's plenty of fishes in the sea, and anal becomes more and more common.

Re: What if?

Posted: Mon Apr 15, 2019 8:12 am
by analsexonly
Anal sex and being anal only is an essential part of my life, and while there's more to a relationship than sex, it is an important part, so if there was total sexual incompatibility in that way, I would very likely be unable to continue that relationship and would need a different partner.

Re: What if?

Posted: Sat Apr 20, 2019 3:15 am
by kingsman
Essential here too. Once upon a time, before I'd tried anal, I would have thought that one type of sex would be that important. Now I know how much better it is than anything else and having got used to having anal often, I couldn't live without it.

Re: What if?

Posted: Wed Sep 25, 2019 3:36 am
by marjan
I was in this situation. I accept my partner's decision but I quietly started looking around for an anal partner, and eventually I found one just for occasional anal sex and some occasional pastime. I keep this secret. Should she find out, I'd tell her the reason plain. She would stop toucing my cock but she probably would not split up, I suppose. I did not think about leaving my partner just because of her decision because there are many things tying us to each other, for instance love ;) .
Splitting up you might end up having no partner at all for some time, because it is not easy to find one under this special precondition we are sharing here.