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Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Tue Oct 01, 2019 5:11 pm
by anallady
Hi all...my husband and I have had a very healthy anal relationship over the years but with a back injury things are not what they once were. Our best sex has always been very rough anal...generally at my request. More often than not I find myself BEGGING to be fucked harder, pleading for his dick to be deeper, and for me to generally be used like "his dirty slut"...and for the record none of these requests are due to him not being large enough etc.
I had a major lower back injury a few months ago and it has definitly impacted our activity. The impact of him thrusting into me from behind is too much (in a bad way this time ;) and I am struggling with how we can try approaching anal so that the experience is still rough and dirty and physically challenging and the things I love about it, without doing more damage and hurting my spine for days/weeks after. Please say someone has ideas of had been here before?

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Wed Oct 02, 2019 6:21 am
by Spiller2006
Hi

Sorry to hear about your back injury.

I would suggest a position experiment.

Depending on what your able to do try using the centre peace of your sofa if you have one. Or get a swing set that you can adjust to support the points that case you pain. Or even if you can get a weight belt and pull it tight so it holds everything in one position.

Hope you find a way

Good luck

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Thu Oct 03, 2019 10:23 pm
by johnywest
You should consider getting a bar stool. You can sit on it with you back straight and just let you ass hang over the edge a bit. It should be very comfortable. He can just hug you from behind and go about his business. And because he doesn't have to bend his knees, his legs won't get tired so he can go about his business for longer. ;) Her are some porn pics to draw inspiration from:
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Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Fri Oct 04, 2019 9:26 am
by throwawaymedfree
Yes, try the stool. I find it very comfortable and puts me at a good angle.

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Mon Mar 16, 2020 3:28 pm
by PeachShaped
Are you open to trying a new way for your husband to dominate you? Maybe more sexy mindfuckery like teasing and orgasm control? He can be gentle with your body, but still get you to subspace on forced orgasms or orgasm denial.

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 7:36 am
by anallady
Thanks for the input everyone...going shopping for a bar stool ;)

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Mon Jul 11, 2022 12:30 pm
by Bubbles
Rough

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Wed Jul 27, 2022 2:55 am
by Stargazer
Hi,
Sorry to hear about your back injury. I had lower back problems too for many years and although I am not on the receiving end of anal sex, I just want to share how I got rid of my back problems.
First I had manual massages and also chiropractor treatments, but the problems kept coming back in shorter intervals. It wasn't until I found a therapist who combined massage together with accupucture that I could get out of the pain. Since over a year now I am painfree.
Greetings

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Wed May 24, 2023 2:43 am
by josesanalwhore
I have the same problem with a back injury. I use the patches that I get at Walmart or at most drug stores. It starts with an S... Saparos or something like that. Im not home or Id look at the box. They help a lot.

Re: Rough Anal...Gentle on Back???

Posted: Fri Jun 16, 2023 11:42 am
by semi-normal
You may want to try experimenting with positions:

https://www.sheknows.com/health-and-wel ... t-timer/2/