When I DO orgasm anally, it feels similar to when I would vaginally, but different at the same time. Because our sex sessions are driven by so many other factors, it's not always just pump-till-you-cum. My master will either use a dildo or fuck me with a stap-on, almost always doggy-style. Missionary is fun to start with, but I have to end up being fucked from behind to orgasm. I masturbate anally often, but I almost never cum that way. I'm wearing a chastity belt, so fingering my anus inside the whole of my belt is it's own wonderful sensation.
I seem to get the most intense orgasms when I'm on top and I'm controlling the speed and angle of entry. Sometimes rolling my hips around instead of just an up and down motion puts me over the edge.
I've never come from *just* anal masturbation, always with my partner, so I'm sure there's something psychological going on as well. But adding anal play to masturbation has helped me learn what feels best.
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Jess for anal wrote: ↑Thu Nov 05, 2020 1:00 pmI have never experienced an anal orgasm , is there a certain position that I should try to get one? How does it feel like? I can only orgasm with clitorial stimulation, never vaginally. I am so bored with vaginal sex, so yesterday, anal is my new love. Having a hard time convincing my husband on AO, but I cannot wait to get an anal orgasm
It can vary for different women, but doggy can be a good position for anal orgasms for a lot of women, as can any position where she's on top. If you're very dependent on clit stimulation, you might try going without it for a while, because clit orgasms can come quickly and anal orgasms can take longer to build, so if you cum from clit stimulation, it prevents you from orgasming anally quite often. If you can get in the mindset for a little bit that if you don't orgasm during a session, that's okay, and you'll try again the next time, you could slowly start to go longer without using your clit and let yourself get more and more horny, which can also help you to orgasm from anal.
Alternatively, you can try to gradually reduce your clit stimulation over time to be less dependent on it and shift sensitivity more to your ass.