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- Joined: Tue Oct 15, 2013 1:29 pm
I would recommend going slow when introducing anal sex to the ladies in your life. During foreplay rub her pussy, stick a finger in it then quickly take it out. Slide it down and rub her anus, then go back to the pussy and clit. Make foreplay last a long time. Remember the goal is to make her comfortable with it. She has been told it will hurt and is not natural. So your goal is to make her enjoy it. It will take time. When she enjoying that start to rub it during vaginal penetration. After a while you will be able to slip the finger in, but wait the first time until she is coming. Take it slow.
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- Joined: Sat Oct 12, 2013 3:32 pm
- Location: UK
Yes I agree. It is all about associating those feelings of anal stimulation with sex and orgasm. It can take a long time to 'click' but eventually the two become completely entangled - one and the same.