1) what is going wrong with my douching? I use warm water after a hot shower, and put in between a quarter and half bottle (4-8 fl oz).
2) I've seen several posts on people not needing to douche at all, having maybe some slime but nothing shitty. how? I understand diet is a significant part of it but specific foods and the like would be prefered.
3)Any other tips and tricks are welcome as heck
Looking forward to hearing back from here!
My wife is averse to enemas. Maybe her being a former nurse has something to do with that?
In any case we have worked this out between us with few problems but our method is part of our long term relationship.
If you are not close with your partner or looking for an anal quickie then an enema might be the best way to go.
She sits on the commode, showers, comes to bed and then tells me she is ready but to be forewarned there may be some "intruders" in the way and it is my job to find these intruders.
I start out massaging her ass with a bit of coconut oil and then inserting a finger in her butt.
If there is something in her lower rectum I can notice it easier with my finger which has more tactile sensitivity than my dick.
If something is there, and 80% of the time that is the case, I ask her what she wants to do about it.
Most times I insert my penis giving her slow, shallow strokes to open her up.
She then visits the bathroom, cleans up and returns.
Usually I do not need to clean myself off but if so I just wash my dick off in the shower.
Now that she is pretty confident that she is fairly clean and we get down to more serious fucking.
But, my lady has to feel that she is really clean or she cannot orgasm so she will usually ask me to do one more "security check".
By now she is pretty opened up and I can get 2 fingers in her and really go deep.
If there is something there we do a repeat of step one - if not we continue on our merry way.
Sex takes longer this way but makes it very enjoyable for both of us.
All she needs is the right amount of lube (not too much) and she's ready to go and tells me to get straight in her ass, slow then pound She's a bit bossy.
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